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Date: October 16, 2022
Yes, I agree. I have mentioned the age gap, how creepy the behavior is, and what it makes me feel like as his partner, yet he continues to brush it off like it's NBD. If this was some unattainable woman/IG model I would have less to say about it. Everyone looks to a degree and that's fine, but this girl he potentially sees more than me right now.
Do I give it time and see if her shinyness wears off and he stops? Or do I keep bothering him about it? Of course that requires me to continue violating his privacy which I'm not very comfortable with.
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OPs husband is saying something because it is…
If he makes ten mil a year, why not ask him to put aside an amount equal to your salary yearly, in case of divorce, and add it to the prenup? This would ensure you don't lose out onearning potential while you are giving up your career to start a family. He can ask for things, and so can you. It's only fair. Otherwise, I would have a nude time agreeing to give up my career and relying only on this man. I'd feel trapped, vulnerable and unhappy with that arrangement myself, because if I'm in a situation where I have no earnings of my own and he'[s fucking around on me, I would be unable to leave him knowing i'd suffer financial losses if I did so. If the relationship does end in divorce, fine, but at that point you can go back to starting your own career up again, although it will probably be a challenge to earn more since you will basically be re-starting. It shouldn't be a problem for him to reimburse you a salary with how much he makes, I can't imagine you also make ten mil a year, if so- you really shouldn't be too worried about finances, just slap that shit into a safe cushy account somewhere and rely on his funds in the meantime. I really have a hot time understanding rich people. TEN MILLION DOLLARS IS A SHIT TON OF MONEY! If you are smart with it, it can take you far, there's no reason to be so greedy with it, especially in regards to your loved ones. Its only money and you aint taking it with you when you die anyway.
Literally just do what he has asked you to from the beginning. No amount of back tracking and laying on the sweet words and apologies and ass kissing is going to make it better. In fact it will probably make it worse because you just won't leave it alone.
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She also has no morals then. Do you want a person in your life without morals???
Tysm!! I’ve said that before too not to abuse me because of a past person actions
Who asked you to do that?
not saying that what he is doing isnt abusive. i just dont think he is doing it for money
Then tell her you are not ok with that since that is the truth. I do not becessarily believe she cgeats on you, but she has to acknowledge you need to talk about it properly not through phone. If she asks in texts messages, then refuse her.
With that saud prepare what you want to say to her to settle this matter properly. You know, about your boundaries. You also should plan something to do with her at the time so that she does not feel like she is missing out on something
It’s also weird to literally never give your partner any space at all in what is ALSO their home
Don't go unless your BF is also invited.
But is it possible that your parents aren't impressed by you dating for 15 years and not being married?
I’d have to assume he’s the one that’s stupid if he can’t understand that you’re from the UK, and the concept of an accent.
When he starts just shut him down. Tell him I don’t want to talk about that. If he doesn’t stop then walk away. Either he will smarten up or it wasn’t a relationship worth having.
You are working so start looking for someone who needs a roommate or has a room to rent out.
If you want to be a stay at home mom, first you would need to establish financial expenses and savings goals, and then your partner would need to be in agreement with it. So what I would do is use that degree and find a job, open up a bank account and learn how to manage money, pay bills and start putting away some money in savings.
Another thing to consider is what would you do if your husband left you and didn't pay alimony or child support? A wife who is accustomed to everything being handled for her financially in life will be in for a rude awakening when she is left to face it alone. Just some things to consider.
Sounds like you have been demoted and she has a new dude.
Maybe you'll find some sense of enjoyment, but graduations suck. I've been to like 5 and if I had to do it all over again, I wouldn't go to any. They are way too long, boring, and you are just sitting there waiting for your name to be called. I seriously think you will go and end up thinking “wow, that was a waste of time and I just ruined my relationships with my family”. You are still a doctor if you don't go. You can probably brag a little at the wedding and everyone you talk to will probably congratulate you. You can drink and have a good time with your family. I think that feels more celebratory that sitting in a sports field of some kind for 4 hours.
You were still in kindergarten when he was planning which college to go. I'm sorry, but of course he only wants you for your body. He wants to show off how he can still pull it off with a young girl, and you can't change that.
If you're not happy being a trophy girlfriend (I wouldn't be either) then, this is not the relationship for you. And whether you realize or not now, you'll see as years go by how much of a creep that guy is.
You can only choose between staying in a relationship with a man that only wants to show you off, that is way older than you and with whom creating a real relationship in which you feel respected and loved for you not your body/age and able to share with him your expectations as time goes by will be impossible; or leave this relationship and learn from this experience. But you can't change how someone else sees you or wants from you.
As for him asking you to give a bj, I think it’s perfectly fine for him to ask. It’s important that he voices what he wants in the bedroom. As long as he accepts your answer of “no” and doesn’t try to push/pressure you, there’s nothing wrong here.
As for why you don’t want to give a BJ, what does his sleeping habits have to do with you wanting to make him feel good? Don’t you want your partner to feel good? I don’t get why him sleeping a lot has anything to do with this. And he probably just feels more comfortable sleeping on his side. If it’s a problem that he has his back to you, suggest switching sides of the bed so he can lay on that side while facing you.
As for you not getting enough cuddles, you need to decide how important that is to you. If you need more cuddles to be happy and he’s refusing to provide that, then you can consider breaking up. Same thing with him always wanting big spoon; if he’s not fulfilling your cuddling needs then you don’t need to fulfill his. A relationship is a 2-way street, if he’s not going to put in effort to meet your needs then you shouldn’t have to meet his.
This is the longest relationship I've been in (first since turning 18). I don't date much and thought I had actually found a good one… ugh.
Did you even read the part where it was an accident to have sex for an hour????!
Uhhh..duh.