I mean lol vitamins are something you give someone because you care about them, not a gift. Like if you caught a cold before your birthday and someone gave you cold medicine or something that would be a pretty shitty gift.
The fact that the first positive you gave was “she cooks and cleans” means you're definitely not viewing her as a partner, and viewing her as a maid you're in a relationship with. I'd leave the relationship if you're going to view her housekeeping skills as her first good qualities you can think of.
I don’t want her to cheat on her BF with me. I was in 2 quite long relationships in the past (one 5 year long and one 2 year long) and they were all quite good ones – in both scenarios my partners were unhappy in their relationships and just ended them, starting a new one with me. Both didn’t end up in cheating and the reasons were totally different than that.
I'll never understand the mentality of keeping nudes/sex tapes.
This is the only conceivable end result and this so obviously the only conceivable end result that I just have to assume all parties involved are hoping for this outcome when they do this nonsense.
That includes your gf for making the nudes and you for saving them.
That said, yeah…warn her that the only possible thing that could have happened has in fact happened. File a police report if you can or at least document whatever evidence you can so that if…sorry, I mean WHEN the images leak you might have legal recourse.
And in the future do not take nudes. And if you're stupid enough to ignore that, do not save them. And if you're stupid enough to ignore THAT, come tell everyone on reddit so we can judge you accordingly.
I understand. I’m just very emotional when these things happen.
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I mean lol vitamins are something you give someone because you care about them, not a gift. Like if you caught a cold before your birthday and someone gave you cold medicine or something that would be a pretty shitty gift.
The fact that the first positive you gave was “she cooks and cleans” means you're definitely not viewing her as a partner, and viewing her as a maid you're in a relationship with. I'd leave the relationship if you're going to view her housekeeping skills as her first good qualities you can think of.
I don’t want her to cheat on her BF with me. I was in 2 quite long relationships in the past (one 5 year long and one 2 year long) and they were all quite good ones – in both scenarios my partners were unhappy in their relationships and just ended them, starting a new one with me. Both didn’t end up in cheating and the reasons were totally different than that.
Read my words: Leave him. Leave him and don’t ever look back.
That literally what I just said though?
I'll never understand the mentality of keeping nudes/sex tapes.
This is the only conceivable end result and this so obviously the only conceivable end result that I just have to assume all parties involved are hoping for this outcome when they do this nonsense.
That includes your gf for making the nudes and you for saving them.
That said, yeah…warn her that the only possible thing that could have happened has in fact happened. File a police report if you can or at least document whatever evidence you can so that if…sorry, I mean WHEN the images leak you might have legal recourse.
And in the future do not take nudes. And if you're stupid enough to ignore that, do not save them. And if you're stupid enough to ignore THAT, come tell everyone on reddit so we can judge you accordingly.
Hon, why are you stressing? It's not a good fit. Cut the boy loose and find someone else.
One child is probably all you will end up getting. Granted she might end up loving your child, or she might end up not loving it and resenting you.
If having loving family with multiple children, I don't think she will give it to you.
Nope. Just dump him right away. No communication necessary /s