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Letizia-Westt1 Public Chat Channel
Date: October 15, 2022
AmateurPub
AmateurPub
Letizia-Westt1 Public Chat Channel
Why are you still with this woman?
Ask him, if he’s ok with you hooking up with other guys too.
No one needed to know your salary. If you think I’m impressed, I’m not. Not important. People survive on one income less than six figures. It makes you look pretentious and arrogant to throw out your salary. I wouldn’t ever just toss that in.
bro she wants to break up so she’s looking for a reason, sucks but you’re only 23 and it’s really not worth this level of chaos, what doesn’t kill you makes you stronger
Listen if she wants to get rid of you (which she does judging from your post) those feelings you have are not reciprocated. It is not healthy to either person to stay in a one sided relationship. You're in your early 20s you have plenty of time to find someone who will respect you.
Dump him, that’s a huge violation of your privacy.
Secondary issue: You’ve been dating for six years and he hasn’t seen you hot and you haven’t slept together? Why?
Either you're airbrushing the conversation to make yourself sound good, or she's a drama llama and you've dodged a bullet. I'm not sure which it is. Possibly a bit of both. Either way, just move on.
The more you respond… you married a bully
Nobody who is healthy in a relationship pulls you down with them just because you're doing better. They support you as best they can from their situation. He's saving you from all the crap he'd lay on you if he trapped you by living together. (I mean, your landlord literally wanted you out because of him. HUGE red flags)
Thank you – that is a very helpful read. I won’t be taking any action lightly, and will likely try therapy before anything else.
When you email these people about needing their contributions or to set up meetings, cc your manager. That way she knows you're doing your due diligence to try and get a things done properly and on time.
You're dating a boy. A real man would respect his gf. It's absolutely disrespectful to not only watch other women but also send to his friends. ?
Yes because nowhere does it say the other person knowingly took advantage of him.
Ok, but I did think of one other thing. He never talks about her. He talks to me about all his other friends, but never her. And never talks to her in front of me like his other male friends. What do you think?
You do realise teen also includes 17 -18 and 19 year olds. I’m in that bracket. I’ve had the experience. I’m not some dumb 13-14 year old. I’ve actually been there and seen it
No red flag about the teen porn. Most(all?) men first became sexual aware when they were teens surrounded by teens. I believe that explains a lot of the teen girl fetish imho.
I would have a family sit down and acknowledge that three women are moving in with a man so you need some privacy ground rules and limits that reflect that reality.
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while she has been getting better, she can often turn erratic and violent when angry/upset. today she was upset that her wisdom tooth appointment could potentially take 6 months (she’s been waiting almost a year). i was initially willing to pay for private but she didn’t want me to do that. at the end of the appointment she started crying, and while i shouldn’t have done the whole “i told you so”, i was also annoyed that I added her to my private health, booked the appointment and had already paid for consultation.
an argument while driving back started and she lost it. she said she will jump out the door and proceeded to do it after refusing to put her seatbelt back on. as she open the door on the highway i pulled her back in and yelled “stop it that’s dangerous” i pulled over by the street. i told her that she is crazy. i acknowledge i shouldn’t have but considering what just happened… she started to hit her legs and head and pulling her own hair. and she opened the door and walked off. after about half an hour i looked for her to no avail. get a call from a random number and it was her asking me to take her to her mothers. i picked her up and she said she wants to go home with me. i’m still in a bit of shock.
she needs help. and i need help from an outside perspective because i feel that i should end this relationship
You gave him more grace for far too long. Whether or not he’ll admit it, they did more than cuddle when he spent so many nights with her. You know that, right? She transitioned to being a FWB when he was dating you.
There is nothing you could have done to have made that relationship work. He was never fully in the relationship. Kindly, you need to stop thinking so much about him. You poured way too much of yourself into someone who was never fully committed to you.
“Do I just leave her and wait until January next year, hoping that both of us somehow, magically still like each other”
Do you even hear yourself? In what world would this ever be okay? Move on dude. Move on to spite her. Move on and become a better person, be someone she regrets missing out on.
This is so unhealthy that even if she did ask you back out, you should reject her. Nobody should “settle” for you dude. Like do you think for one second that she would act this way to her ideal man? That she would respect this “finding herself” bullshit for someone like that?
No, she wouldn't and you've been given an out from this creepy friendzone guy who listens to her talking about guys she's fucking when its clearly painful to hear. Leaving you was the nicest thing she's done for you, even if she did it for herself.
If she really wanted to be with you then she would. But she's not, why? Because she just isn't that into you dude. As if people pass up chances on those they love because they want to “find themselves” c'mon dude. Its like the clearest sign.
This went poorly for OP, lol
To answer your question… go volunteer somewhere else that is less dangerous.
You why life your “identity” and be in a safer place. The only reason you'd disagree is if you don't think volunteering at your cities soup kitchen will get you as many FB likes as going to Tijuana.
Blocking each other and going no-contact is usually the best way to go.
You're well rid of him. Cope by realizing that and being glad you found out he's an asshole. Him being mad at your method of discovery is irrelevant.