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Date: January 12, 2023
You should support him.
You should NOT support him by being “happy”. That's a really shitty idea.
If you put on a happy face and pretend, that'll make you feel isolated, lonely and perhaps more suicidal.
You don't want that, and he definitely doesn't want that. You deserve love, you deserve to feel seen and heard. You don't deserve to have to deal with your mental problems yourself.
Don't punish yourself for being open with him, that was super fucking brave of you.
You won’t ever be completely over it. I’ve been there, my ex bf and I ended up in a similar situation when I found out (almost 1 year into the relationship) that he’d spent the first couple of months still texting & seeing his ex. I felt like it shouldn’t be that big of a deal, it happened long ago and ever since then he’d been 100% faithful and committed. But idk… despite trying to rationalize it, it was just so shitty to realize the entire first couple months were a lie. When up until finding out, those first months were so exciting and happy for me… I was crushed. I, too, did everything in my power to be “over it” and forgive him… but it didn’t work. No matter how hot I tried, I still felt bitter towards him anything I thought about it (which was all the time). It got toxic very fast. I stayed with him for another year, trying to fight off the resentment, but ultimately had to end it because there’s just no coming back from that. I couldn’t even celebrate our “anniversary” without bitterly wondering when he’d actually decided to be committed to me.
You’ve been with her way longer, so maybe it’s different. But in my experience, there is no “getting over” being cheated on, no matter how long ago it happened.