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lenastyles chat
Date: October 14, 2022
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Someone told me “if you don't know it's because it never happened”
A sexologist can help (I'm not sure of the word in English but I meant a psychologist specializing in sex)
What is NC?
She didn't think, she found out. Word it properly. You lied to her.
We almost got divorced but canceled it because we still loved each other the only reason we haven’t moved in together is because we can’t afford it
I think it's best to just be direct- that you appreciate the experience with her, that you care about her as a person, but that you are not ready to be in this sort of relationship and that you think it would be best for both of your emotional and mental well beings to no longer talk with each other.
Yes, it will hurt her, but its the kindest way to approach it. I don't think checking in will be good for either of you, I think it's best to respectfully cut off all contact and allow each other to just go your separate ways before things become anymore toxic, for lack of a better term. It is not your responsibility to be her support system, especially not a situation like this. And I understand that sounds very cold- but it's not meant to be. She needs a true support system and very likely professional help, not a 22 year old man she's been sleeping with for a few months. You simply do not have the emotional skills or life experience to play that role for her, and that's okay- you shouldn't at 22.
Just stay strong- and remember that you are not responsible for her emotional well being. That, especially in this time of her life, is her responsibility. I wish you the best on this difficult situation, and a fulfilling dating life going forward.
Lots of good advice here, but OP, PLEASE LOCK YOUR DOOR AT ALL TIMES! He already had rough sex with you, and has tried to aggressively kiss you and was angry about it. It’s clear he’s very in denial about his sexuality and is taking his inner turmoil out on you. Do not be alone with him in the flat.
I would tell him to go fuck himself, and not communicate with him anymore. he sounds like a dick.
don’t start fights, just don’t talk to him
I can’t tell you not date older men (although i would advise against it) but if you are, you need high standards and strong boundaries. why? because these are grown ass adult men. they know what they want, they know what they are doing. no excuses. if it was a guy your age i would be more lenient but please take my advice: if he wanted to, he would.
Plan B should be taken within 72 hours ??
Well… No it's not. Terrible, absolutely. But rape, no
Oh, I assumed it was a female. This whole thing reads like someone who is super jealous. That’s probably not the case or whatever but that’s how it’s probably going to come across to the friend.
I decided long ago that I wouldn't get mad, I would just get even. Go out and find some tail.
As he's cerebral – have him study interpersonal relationships and emotional intelligence resources. Its pretty normal for STEM people to miss out on this area but they can get very good at it too.
Your 19. You’ve barely started adult life. There’s plenty of fish in the sea.
So. in your state retreat is necessary. California doesn't even require that to use deadly force. Typically, most use the standard of fear for your or the lives of others.
I'm not saying the roommate had a right to shoot her. Aggravated assault for confronting an intruder in your own home? That's hard to believe.
Now, you're going to tell us you live in the UK.