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Date: December 28, 2022
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He's trying to shake you got being absolutely NORMAL. Do not take a single thing he said to heart, hon. It would be one thing if you pulled his pants down and said I'm going down o)} you since I'm not there
Thank you for your comment. I’m not gonna lie it’s been so long that I’ve had someone agree with my perspective that I actually sobbed with relief. It’s annoying I can’t see him because it’s 30+ degree weather all week so it means we just don’t see eachother this week unfortunately. I don’t catch public transport but as far as I can remember the train can sometimes be air conditioned but sometimes it isn’t.
I offered to drive and pick him up (it’s a 30-40 minute drive to his) but he said nah. Probably because his parents don’t know about me yet and he doesn’t know how to tell them. (I don’t want to get into this issue as then I’ll be here all week haha).
I love him because we genuinely have so much in common both hobbies wise, work wise, tv shows, movies, music taste etc. we were friends first and we originally bonded over the fact that we enjoy literally all of the same things and because we had wicked chemistry/banter. He is also ridiculously funny and charming and I can’t help but fall head over heels for a charming and funny guy. He used to be very loving and gentleman like (opening my car door for me etc) but he’s stopped that due to I guess a rise in tension in arguments etc. I also find him very attractive obviously!
He's an ass. He quit his job without having a new job lined up and he's upset because there is an implied expectation that he actually DO something. Time to sit down and tell him that this isn't sustainable and that he has x amount of time to correct his attitude, get a job or he's out.
And that's absolutely fair. This whole ordeal was a shitshow created by a manipulative bitch. Now everyone just needs to try to move on.
Maybe tell the ex the truth and let her decide whatever. All I know is that they need to get the fuck away from the sister.
Your future kids shouldn't be leverage to make your parents pretend to be decent people.
Your parents can make amends or not. But don't dangle your kids like a carrot hoping it'll inspire change.
Your parents need to make changes then show those changes are heartfelt and enduring before they even hear about any grandkids. Let alone meet them.
Also, as they've insulted your wife she absolutely gets a say in what reconciliation looks like… if she's even interested at all.
I wonder, would you open the lines of communication if a friend treated your wife that way? Or do your parents get special treatment.
My standards for those closest to me are higher than they are for others. I expect my mother to care about me enough to treat my SO with MORE respect than I would expect from an acquaintance. Showing kindness towards my SO is an act of love towards me.
Any rude statement or insult would be worse coming from someone close to me than it would be from a stranger. If some rando calls my SO a slur I'd be pissed. If my mother called my SO a slur I'd be apoplectic. I'd throw myself head first into rage. I can't imagine I'd be able to even about the situation without getting rip shit, venom spitting, teeth gnashing livid for a decade or two at least.
I guess I'm wondering if you think family= free pass to assholeville.