Yeah for sure, take the wins where you can get them.
I’m just always a little weirded out how people on Reddit have such definitive opinions when we have a microscopic amount of information – it worked this time, but an paranoid overprotective sibling could very easily have scared away a good man with this tactic
Doesn’t seem like a very healthy way to approach this, but hey, like I said, take the wins where you can get ‘em!
How do I approach in an adult way to basically tell her to stop their “platonic” relationship?
You don’t get to tell her that. What you DO get to tell her is “this is becoming a dealbreaker for me; you can do what you want, I’m just giving you fair warning how I feel about it.”
The distinction is subtle but important. You can’t tell another adult what to do, but you CAN walk away from a relationship at any time.
I need to talk to someone about this. I know that I'm having troubles preforming now but it is because I don't want to and it is something my fiancée and I had arguments about.
But that makes me more sure that I was willing that time or I would have had the same problem. maybe I should talk to someone. Google isn't doing it for me anymore.
It has literally always been used as a singular pronoun for someone of unspecified gender
Yeah for sure, take the wins where you can get them.
I’m just always a little weirded out how people on Reddit have such definitive opinions when we have a microscopic amount of information – it worked this time, but an paranoid overprotective sibling could very easily have scared away a good man with this tactic
Doesn’t seem like a very healthy way to approach this, but hey, like I said, take the wins where you can get ‘em!
Let him know that you find it unattractive.
Easy there buddy. Care to elaborate?
How do I approach in an adult way to basically tell her to stop their “platonic” relationship?
You don’t get to tell her that. What you DO get to tell her is “this is becoming a dealbreaker for me; you can do what you want, I’m just giving you fair warning how I feel about it.”
The distinction is subtle but important. You can’t tell another adult what to do, but you CAN walk away from a relationship at any time.
But when they don't show any interest/ initiative what should I do
I need to talk to someone about this. I know that I'm having troubles preforming now but it is because I don't want to and it is something my fiancée and I had arguments about.
But that makes me more sure that I was willing that time or I would have had the same problem. maybe I should talk to someone. Google isn't doing it for me anymore.