It's definitely a thing, but not with someone you've known 6 months and not to the extent you've described. Maaaaybe if they were both single. That's so disrespectful to you.
I think it would be worth discussing with him if this type of scenario, Peter making a last minute change and then the parents telling Tim to go along with it, is common. I agree that he should uave told you as a soon as he knew. This is where I suggest explaining how you would like him to handle the next time something like this occurs.
“He asked for it to be a monogamous, indefinite, no-contact break.”
This is nonsense. Whatever his intent, he is literally asking you to sit around waiting for him to figure his shit out and not date anyone else potentially forever. All without any contact regarding how things are going. That's insanely controlling, and just plain insane. If he wants to break up, he can break up; he can always hit you up whenever he decides he wants you back to see if you're still interested. That is exactly how you should treat this situation. But asking you to put your romantic life on hold indefinitely is an absurd request, and it's one to which you should say “no”. Your relationship is already over; move on.
I don’t think you’re fat too. I mean you have to think long term will your husband love you if you get pregnant and have baby fat? Will he still love your body? I think working out at the gym together is great at least I do that with my bf bc he is my friend and a great time and motivation. Yet again he doesn’t care if I were to have some extra pounds. Do you really want to spend your life with a person like your husband?
You’re just going to have to wait until your meeting to ask him what’s up, unfortunately. Before you do, though, go through your memories and remember specifics of when you had these very clear discussions. Find written backup if you can. I had an ex who during arguments would constantly ask “give me an example of that” or “when exactly did that happen?”. I was always blindsided by it so I used to come prepared with backup if I was bringing up any issues (yes this was a toxic relationship, obviously!). I wouldn’t assume the worst, but you are thinking he may be manipulating you, so this is something good to have in your back pocket. That way if he does try and say that you said that you were monogamous or something, you can point to specific examples of why that is not true. Good luck!
He’s counting on you not to make a scene. If you talk calmly and non threatening he won’t know what to say. It will make you look good, not cause an atmosphere
The problem is that she’s then on her own with the child, and that level of exhaustion is overwhelming. I very much doubt he would do-parent, so then you’re in the trenches on your own, and normal dating, relationships, etc, aren’t an option.
The gym
I hope you mean ex boyfriend, at this point he’s too far gone to be redeemed.
You're missing the line he wrote about already have made a gift to the parents to thank for the help but didn't know what to gift Camilla until now.
It's definitely a thing, but not with someone you've known 6 months and not to the extent you've described. Maaaaybe if they were both single. That's so disrespectful to you.
He doesn’t brush his teeth regularly lmao I bet he’s smelling his own breath.
I think it would be worth discussing with him if this type of scenario, Peter making a last minute change and then the parents telling Tim to go along with it, is common. I agree that he should uave told you as a soon as he knew. This is where I suggest explaining how you would like him to handle the next time something like this occurs.
Jesus christ
“He asked for it to be a monogamous, indefinite, no-contact break.”
This is nonsense. Whatever his intent, he is literally asking you to sit around waiting for him to figure his shit out and not date anyone else potentially forever. All without any contact regarding how things are going. That's insanely controlling, and just plain insane. If he wants to break up, he can break up; he can always hit you up whenever he decides he wants you back to see if you're still interested. That is exactly how you should treat this situation. But asking you to put your romantic life on hold indefinitely is an absurd request, and it's one to which you should say “no”. Your relationship is already over; move on.
I don’t think you’re fat too. I mean you have to think long term will your husband love you if you get pregnant and have baby fat? Will he still love your body? I think working out at the gym together is great at least I do that with my bf bc he is my friend and a great time and motivation. Yet again he doesn’t care if I were to have some extra pounds. Do you really want to spend your life with a person like your husband?
Moreover, what the wife is doing can bring issues down the line. Eventually the baby will have latching issues or may reject OP’s breast.
Don't you mean “they”? Why would the expectation be on just him to plan the honeymoon?
Almost certainly it’s just new partner anxiety.
I’d suggest taking PIV off the table for awhile and only do other stuff.
Once he’s a bit more relaxed down the road the problem will resolve.
No you should not cave and give him another chance. He’s a liar and a cheater and he will continue to be a liar and a cheater. Move on
You’re just going to have to wait until your meeting to ask him what’s up, unfortunately. Before you do, though, go through your memories and remember specifics of when you had these very clear discussions. Find written backup if you can. I had an ex who during arguments would constantly ask “give me an example of that” or “when exactly did that happen?”. I was always blindsided by it so I used to come prepared with backup if I was bringing up any issues (yes this was a toxic relationship, obviously!). I wouldn’t assume the worst, but you are thinking he may be manipulating you, so this is something good to have in your back pocket. That way if he does try and say that you said that you were monogamous or something, you can point to specific examples of why that is not true. Good luck!
I would say she’s a tad unbalanced then. Seriously.
You’re not really listening, you’re just here to promote your own worldview.Take care.
He’s counting on you not to make a scene. If you talk calmly and non threatening he won’t know what to say. It will make you look good, not cause an atmosphere
It’s possible, but like a best friend? Not really viable, ultimately you’ll drift apart
The problem is that she’s then on her own with the child, and that level of exhaustion is overwhelming. I very much doubt he would do-parent, so then you’re in the trenches on your own, and normal dating, relationships, etc, aren’t an option.