It's not a boundary. It's imposing a restriction on their freedoms.
Those people who see it as cheating are stupid. Funny enough, cheating occurs for emotional reasons majority of the time. Cheating (having sex outside of a monogamous relationship) actually harms someone. Watching porn doesn't harm anyone.
Anything in excess is harmful, but watching porn and jerking off to it from time to time is healthy.
Sweetheart if he is diagnosed with bipolar disorder and is choosing not to take meds he is absolutely not ready to be in a relationship. Especially if he's trying to talk you out of taking medicine that helps keep you healthy.
The updates… just.. no. It’s not going to stop. It’s going to get to a point where you feel undesirable to him and you will be constantly insecure about him jerking off. It’s best to cut it off now before you both get more invested in this relationship.
I have a cousin who let her kids have the father's name. After a few years he started treating her and the girls poorly. Let's say she leaves him – the kids would still have the guy's name even if she doesn't want to remember him.
I get it that you've already made a lot of commitment and would say that such a scenario would never happen in your case, but if you're not even married, she has all the right to make the kids keep her surname.
Would a bar even let you in wearing leggings and a t-shirt?
It's not a boundary. It's imposing a restriction on their freedoms.
Those people who see it as cheating are stupid. Funny enough, cheating occurs for emotional reasons majority of the time. Cheating (having sex outside of a monogamous relationship) actually harms someone. Watching porn doesn't harm anyone.
Anything in excess is harmful, but watching porn and jerking off to it from time to time is healthy.
Sweetheart if he is diagnosed with bipolar disorder and is choosing not to take meds he is absolutely not ready to be in a relationship. Especially if he's trying to talk you out of taking medicine that helps keep you healthy.
Totally.
While being from Germany I think OP is right.
Where there is such a thing as legitimate self- defense beating burglars bloody is not included.
It could be judged as an assault.
There being a woman involved whom OP wanted to protect this might antenuate the sentence slightly.
But he should at least be in for some community hours or other.
I would like her to try and find comfort in me when she's not well, but I understand that her coping mechanism is being alone..
The updates… just.. no. It’s not going to stop. It’s going to get to a point where you feel undesirable to him and you will be constantly insecure about him jerking off. It’s best to cut it off now before you both get more invested in this relationship.
You're not even married.
I have a cousin who let her kids have the father's name. After a few years he started treating her and the girls poorly. Let's say she leaves him – the kids would still have the guy's name even if she doesn't want to remember him.
I get it that you've already made a lot of commitment and would say that such a scenario would never happen in your case, but if you're not even married, she has all the right to make the kids keep her surname.
i wasnt threatening suicide. i was stating how i felt. would u think it would be best if i kept it to myself and then possibly done it?
This is how manipulative people talk. Trying to make your choices someone else's fault. This is childish and manipulative and exhausting.