I am so sorry this was how you were treated. You did NOT deserve that. Look to your future now with you in mind. I love Tai chi for mindfulness and body motion!
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Even if she had her own room, if she wanted to cheat she could. It's just that sharing the same room, I think it's playing with fire.
We've been together for 10 years and I trust her, but I have to admit that I don't really like this situation. I didn't tell her because I don't want her to feel bad about going, especially since it's an event she's been waiting for 2 years (covid).
I was wondering how what would be your opinion/reaction to a similar situation? Not sure how I should react
[EDIT] Thanks everyone, just confirm me that this make no sense. Will talk to her this make no sense to me too but I googled about this before posting here, and I saw many posts saying “I trust my gilrfriend/boyfriend” but really, this is not correct for both the employer and her
[EDIT 2] Absolutely not lying here, her employer is the Government of Quebec.
[EDIT 3] I talked to someone who travel a lot with sport teams. She told me it was common for her to share a room with a coach and that it was all about trust. She said it was common for all other sport teams she know too. It's the first and only person I found who told me it was common….
[EDIT 4] Forget the same bed thing, I have no idea so let's consider it's 2 beds per room
No, the comment you were replying to is right. You’re making silly speculation that’s beside the point. He could be a total recluse and it wouldn’t make a difference.
Unfortunately women’s healthcare is still ridiculously subpar. Even OBGYNS are notorious for knowing fuck-all when it comes to the postpartum pelvic floor. She needs to get to a pelvic floor physiotherapist stat – they work miracles, and in some countries, women get default appointments with them covered by taxpayers after each birth.
You shouldn't have to talk to a grown ass man about his hygiene. You're 21, do you really want to be stuck in a relationship without sex, without fun, without love, with a smelly dude?
Get out, and find someone with at least some basic hygiene and sex drive.
Lying by omission is still lying. He should've told her of the possibility so she could make an informed decision. He knows that, she knows that and most rational people know that. Why don't you?
Then why did you completely blame the friend in this post
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Has your wife already turned into the evil stepmother?.
it's 24N – this doesn't surprise me at all
I am so sorry this was how you were treated. You did NOT deserve that. Look to your future now with you in mind. I love Tai chi for mindfulness and body motion!
This post has reached one of our comment/karma limits. The text of the post has been preserved below.
Even if she had her own room, if she wanted to cheat she could. It's just that sharing the same room, I think it's playing with fire.
We've been together for 10 years and I trust her, but I have to admit that I don't really like this situation. I didn't tell her because I don't want her to feel bad about going, especially since it's an event she's been waiting for 2 years (covid).
I was wondering how what would be your opinion/reaction to a similar situation? Not sure how I should react
[EDIT] Thanks everyone, just confirm me that this make no sense. Will talk to her this make no sense to me too but I googled about this before posting here, and I saw many posts saying “I trust my gilrfriend/boyfriend” but really, this is not correct for both the employer and her
[EDIT 2] Absolutely not lying here, her employer is the Government of Quebec.
[EDIT 3] I talked to someone who travel a lot with sport teams. She told me it was common for her to share a room with a coach and that it was all about trust. She said it was common for all other sport teams she know too. It's the first and only person I found who told me it was common….
[EDIT 4] Forget the same bed thing, I have no idea so let's consider it's 2 beds per room
Thanks!
“He is my little brother!!! Get your head out of the Game of Thrones gutter and comprehend that we're not the Lannister twins.”
No, the comment you were replying to is right. You’re making silly speculation that’s beside the point. He could be a total recluse and it wouldn’t make a difference.
Unfortunately women’s healthcare is still ridiculously subpar. Even OBGYNS are notorious for knowing fuck-all when it comes to the postpartum pelvic floor. She needs to get to a pelvic floor physiotherapist stat – they work miracles, and in some countries, women get default appointments with them covered by taxpayers after each birth.
The guy can finally get a bj.
He doesn’t want to be friends. He thinks if he waits long enough, he’ll be the Ross to your Rachel.
Easy to say, haha.
Red flags all over this gal. She clearly wants a “lifestyle” over love. Tough to win at that game for her and you.
If he has you blocked then respect his boundaries, he doesn’t want you in his life
You break up with him, that's what you do.
You shouldn't have to talk to a grown ass man about his hygiene. You're 21, do you really want to be stuck in a relationship without sex, without fun, without love, with a smelly dude?
Get out, and find someone with at least some basic hygiene and sex drive.
Thats just more signs youre wasting your time and his.
I see what your talking about. Umm your right I will look into this. Thank you.
Three are so many others, but I didn't want to sound like I wasn't over it. I'm well past it.
Yeah me neither. Good luck
Stop trying to make excuses for him.
Lying by omission is still lying. He should've told her of the possibility so she could make an informed decision. He knows that, she knows that and most rational people know that. Why don't you?