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Um No. Sorry. But u need to tell her she is a parent and leaving for an unknown amount of time is not an option. She can go to therapy if she needs to figure things out. It kind of sounds like her way of manipulating u, so she can go off and enjoy some sort of new lifestyle. Sorry but no. I can see through this. She needs to get over herself. U don't need to leave to find out what u want to do. How will that help? She thinks finding some new hobby will change her? That's ridiculous. U both chose to have a child, she needs to be a responsible parent.
I don't get it. Can you explain it more?
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Lol
You're cute.
Then how should she say “I’d like the same trip”
Then how should she say “I’d like the same trip”
You set the tone, you set your rules, nothing wrong with that. You can also choose what to do going forward.
Um No. Sorry. But u need to tell her she is a parent and leaving for an unknown amount of time is not an option. She can go to therapy if she needs to figure things out. It kind of sounds like her way of manipulating u, so she can go off and enjoy some sort of new lifestyle. Sorry but no. I can see through this. She needs to get over herself. U don't need to leave to find out what u want to do. How will that help? She thinks finding some new hobby will change her? That's ridiculous. U both chose to have a child, she needs to be a responsible parent.
Then just straight up tell him, be prepared for him to question if you are sure he is the dad and that he may want a paternity test