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lalisss Public Chat Channel
Date: October 19, 2022
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Why the fuck would anyone watch a movie with you? You know movies are stories, even based on true stories have added scenes for dramatic effects. You said you hate lies so why the fuck would anyone wanna constantly head you bemoan about how Harry potter isn't real cause magic doesn't exist? Like come on. People tell stories and you embarrassed her infront of all her friends, then had the nerve to bring it up again at home when it was already discussed that she puts flair on her stories (which all atory tellers do if they are good at it). To say her emotions embarrassed people? Wtf? No they embarrass you! You are an asshole. Get therapy and learn to apologise because you don't realise it but she is hurt and it's not manipulation, you are the manipulative one
Hahah thank you, I guess something good came out of it. To be fair I didn't drink that often before, probably twice a month. But now when I drink I don't drink much anymore.
I don't think she will, she has a heart condition that she never told her doctor which one day caused her to faint in class.
100% agreed
the only reason why i said “18” is bc Daniel who’s 20 in a couple months thinks that i would stoop to the level to cheat on someone who’s younger than daniel. even the cheating in general it’s not fair
He is politely telling you he wants to end the phone call. 1 hours is a long phone call, I couldn't imagine talking to anyone for longer than that
And you really stay with a woman like that? I would dump her ass right away. She still doesn't see right from wrong it's disgusting
Lolol I was using the total “me”
Our cars***
It’s established case law for criminal procedure
Most likely they can’t pay you back, honestly, and are avoiding contact out of shame. In the future make sure expectations of paying back or paying back in a specific time are established, or just give money only you can safely “dispose” of.
I’m sorry this is the advice, but assume it was a gift. Maybe reach out to them about anything BUT the money (if preserving the friendship is the focus) or just let them come to you. If you need the money, you can try to pressure them, but that would most likely fail because of the distance.
If they are a good person they’re not reaching back out of probably out of shame, if they’re not a good person they made off with the money. Proceed accordingly since you know them much better than I do lol
My dude. You are being threatened. You need to keep away from this man. Reading your other message and the unfortunate response from the university and police, you're not going to be safe returning to class, let alone campus. He's already made clear that he's going “to be with you.” You're a conquest to him, a prize — an object that must be obtained. Obviously, you are *not* an object or something that anyone can “have” [let alone without your consent or desire], but you're dealing with a deranged man. You can't reason with this and the resources that are supposed to help you are miserably failing you.
**Do what you have to do to stay away from that class or campus. He is going to continue to hunt you down until he finds you and gets from you what he wants.** I don't know your exact circumstances, but if you're able to, honestly, I'd consider terminating your semester or transferring schools. I understand that's easier said than done, but we're talking about your safety here. If you're able to get the NOC for this semester, fine, stay off of campus.
Keep people on an information diet — don't share any unnecessary information with people, especially those in contact with this man. Stay off of social media (yeah, maybe even Reddit too!). Seriously consider your moves after this semester. Again, as long as that man is there, that campus will not be safe for you.
Whatever your choices, please be careful and safe. I'm so sorry you're going through this.
My sister is a horrible person and I cut her out completely. My mother was devastated and would NOT STOP badgering me about it. I told her to drop it or she would be the next person I cut out. Don't keep assholes in your life regardless of who they are.
This is the heart of the matter. Is OP’s doctor a man? Does bf know what’s involved in a pelvic exam? How far will he push his discomfort on her?
You either need to forgive and move on or break up. Staying together just to continue making passive aggressive insulting comments doesn’t accomplish anything good for either of you. If you can’t get past it, end the relationship.
She's told me she doesn't want to have anything to do with him and that it's only going to be like “hello” “goodbye” etc because of the friend group dynamic so it's not like they are going to remain friends. I suppose just knowing he will be around is what is upsetting me
Even Joe said he's interested . You are troll yourself who thinks this is normal
she sounds like an asshole fr. she sees you as a safety net and is using you. not only that, but when confronted, she gaslit you. and the fact that y’all got engaged pretty quickly because she kept pushing for it a month or two after y’all got official?? aw hell naw. thats toxic asf.
my advice is to call off the wedding and break things off with her. she’s disrespecting you. you deserve better. i’m wishing you the best.
If she has to delete messages, it’s already over.
Never said it was happening, but if you’re in a new relationship it is an important thing to consider and keep in the back of your mind just in case
Six months girlfriend, dump her. There’s no reason to work this out classless completely classless. Leave her behind and find somebody else.
If you end up with him long term enough this will be your life.
The lying isn't cool, and the situations are sketchy. Proceed with caution, you're right to feel uneasy about her.
Yeah this sucks. Their opinion of you does matter, it already affects your and your daughter's wellbeing. Social capital and social judgment are no small things.
You could leverage the grapevine, “leak” the truth to the gossiping folks, and see if the issue clears itself out. Your wife needs to start managing the issue from her side and dropping the truth bombs whenever she's in a social situation.
If you want to tell him then I’d change jobs first. The risk of this information torpedoing your relationship is too big to risk it getting around the work place and following you around in your career.
Personally, unless he’s flat out said sex work in any capacity is a deal breaker for him, I wouldn’t tell him. You are allowed to let some things stay in the past.
Please give the dog away. Poor dude has to live with this terror.
Maybe its not your bfs fault but there is absolutely no excuse to let this situation go on. And if you watch him mistreat the dog without doing anything you are as bad as him with animals.
Why would you stay with this guy?
Well, I wanted an objective opinion (or as close to one as I could get lmao) because my bf keeps telling me I'm overreacting and he doesn't understand why I'm not over some of the lies/inconsistencies from earlier in our relationship. He tells me I'm too insecure then tells me I need to rely on him more when I'm feeling that way– despite making multiple comments over the years that if I don't fix my insecurities then we don't have a future. He even cited my insecurity as his reason from breaking up with me Sunday morning (then basically said nvm shortly thereafter).
“I don't want to throw this relationship away over pillow talk” … but then posts his dick in R4R not even 12 hours later.
Just 1 year off high school and in college but yeah you're kinda right. She's very non confrontational and has a hot time saying no. I understand that she can be friends with people who have different beliefs. Does this mean I should ask her though? If she thinks she agrees with him or would do something similar (about openly having a fat crush on someone while in a relationship)? If she does agree then it's an issue of compatibility no?
You’re a POS and I’m glad she didn’t feed into ANY ego of yours by just calmly kicking your ass out.
Anyways, get some therapy. Be a better person and stop looking for sympathy. Be someone your sons can look up to. You’ve got a lot of self reflection to do.
You’re right. I can’t argue with you. My husband also agrees with you.
“Why are you going to the gym at 6am, to see your boyfriend?”
“Who goes to the gym after 7pm unless they're cheating”
This really says it all, doesn't it?
He's insecure, and intimidated by the changes you've made.
He's not being an asshole “for no reason”. He's being an asshole because he's afraid that you're gonna meet someone wealthier and healthier than him, and he's trying to bring you down so that you'll quit. He wants you to be the fat, socially-isolated girl so he doesn't have to do any work on himself to impress you.
He’s being ridiculous and that part isn’t really up for debate. You’ve now gotten a million answers about his selfish, resentful behavior about you telling the truth about your own pain and pleasure.
I will add that positively encouraging behavior that you don’t want to continue sends the opposite message. It’s not that you can’t teach an old dog new tricks – it’s just that the metaphorical dog WILL have a reaction to feeling like something was going well but has actually been going badly. I would argue all of his drama was to make sure you don’t ever ask to be fully sexually satisfied again, but it really might be his own dramatic response to not being the sex god he thought he was.
Either way, telling people the truth about their affect on you will almost always help you. It would be naive to think that blunt honesty is ALWAYS the best policy on every single issue, but reinforcing bad (or otherwise undesirable) behavior will produce that behavior over and over again.