I called him while he was driving (he drove his parents to the airport) but still hasn’t come back since. Apparently he had errands to run after but it’s been several hours and he’s still not back. Leaving me to walk the dogs and sit alone with his grandma to eat my dinner while she watched.
I basically told him that I’m already feeling sick of having his grandma breathing down my neck and I need space. He said he’s tired of me complaining.
I feel this is so unfair.
Not to mention we had his parents watch our cat for two days a while back and they complained about it.
If the connection feels right then give the relationship a chance. I’ve been in a similar situation – the relationship had a clear 6 month expiry date because I was relocating to another continent, but the connection was really strong so I figured I’d just see how it went. It was 100% worth it, we’ve now settled in the same city together and we’re getting married this year
I had to help my parents a lot with bureaucratic stuff i didn't even fully understand when i was a kid as well, or be the personal IT girl because of the language barrier. They do get by with normal but broken day-to-day language, but german bureaucracy is hell even for germans.
I hated those parts if my childhood because whenever i, as a child, should have depended on my parents, they actually depended on me. It sucks, a lot. Being dragged to every appointment to understand everything, whether it's medical or with the bank. That's also the reason i'm childfree, i don't want anyone to be so dependent on me anymore, i've done that as a child already when i shouldn't have.
I don't hate my parents for it, they have learned enough to do a lot themselves now and found professionals who speek their native language who can help them so much more (like a good acquaintance who's a financial advisor who helps them way better with paper work than i could). But i don't visit them too often, even if i live not too far away, because there's always something that they need help with, something i have to do/read/translate. My brother didn't have to help as much as a kid, because i was/am the “smart” one, but he understands most things as well as i do, sees them weekly and they still ask me most of the time…. It just sucks, especially if i don't know/understand something myself, but they always think i do just because i understand german much better…
Forsure. Most of my sex is the latter. I guess I’m my head i was wandering why foreplay would benefit him lasting longer if that makes sense. At least for me she is occasionally horny but often I just ask her to cum for me which is me usually being on top and her playing with herself for a few minutes. We very rarely deviate from that if she gets off. Most of the time I just fuck quicker than longer after being blown a little. I was just basing the comment off the idea of how to last longer I guess and was wondering if foreplay leads to that I suppose.
No I gave up on a foolish dream. They would have done wonders for me. Y'all can stop bullying now. It's childish really. Grow up
I called him while he was driving (he drove his parents to the airport) but still hasn’t come back since. Apparently he had errands to run after but it’s been several hours and he’s still not back. Leaving me to walk the dogs and sit alone with his grandma to eat my dinner while she watched.
I basically told him that I’m already feeling sick of having his grandma breathing down my neck and I need space. He said he’s tired of me complaining.
I feel this is so unfair.
Not to mention we had his parents watch our cat for two days a while back and they complained about it.
You invest in what's important. If you hooked up with him and he's not banging on your door wanting more look elsewhere.
Yikes, as a woman, this guy is my nightmare
If the connection feels right then give the relationship a chance. I’ve been in a similar situation – the relationship had a clear 6 month expiry date because I was relocating to another continent, but the connection was really strong so I figured I’d just see how it went. It was 100% worth it, we’ve now settled in the same city together and we’re getting married this year
I had to help my parents a lot with bureaucratic stuff i didn't even fully understand when i was a kid as well, or be the personal IT girl because of the language barrier. They do get by with normal but broken day-to-day language, but german bureaucracy is hell even for germans.
I hated those parts if my childhood because whenever i, as a child, should have depended on my parents, they actually depended on me. It sucks, a lot. Being dragged to every appointment to understand everything, whether it's medical or with the bank. That's also the reason i'm childfree, i don't want anyone to be so dependent on me anymore, i've done that as a child already when i shouldn't have.
I don't hate my parents for it, they have learned enough to do a lot themselves now and found professionals who speek their native language who can help them so much more (like a good acquaintance who's a financial advisor who helps them way better with paper work than i could). But i don't visit them too often, even if i live not too far away, because there's always something that they need help with, something i have to do/read/translate. My brother didn't have to help as much as a kid, because i was/am the “smart” one, but he understands most things as well as i do, sees them weekly and they still ask me most of the time…. It just sucks, especially if i don't know/understand something myself, but they always think i do just because i understand german much better…
Forsure. Most of my sex is the latter. I guess I’m my head i was wandering why foreplay would benefit him lasting longer if that makes sense. At least for me she is occasionally horny but often I just ask her to cum for me which is me usually being on top and her playing with herself for a few minutes. We very rarely deviate from that if she gets off. Most of the time I just fuck quicker than longer after being blown a little. I was just basing the comment off the idea of how to last longer I guess and was wondering if foreplay leads to that I suppose.
I'm sorry you're going through it. I hope it's not happened, but prepare for the worst. Do not leave your home if you separate.