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Or he just really likes lasagna and is fine with having left overs? Or he's having friends over?
Is there any other reason he's given you to think he's cheating on a spouse?
Unfortunately that kind of thinking does not lead you to a good (or healthy) place.
No matter what, you two need distance. She needs the distance so she can get over her feelings for you and the last thing you need is to encourage her and enjoy the attention she gives you. If you continue as normal, it leads to a bad place.
Your boyfriend is correct in being upset, she basically took a shot at you. Things are different now but I understand why you'd wish you could continue as “normal”. It's just not an option if you want to be a good friend.
No but I would be more understanding. I have made it clear that everyone has parts about themselves that are ugly but as long as we communicate and are honest with each other we can figure out a solution together. To me honesty is top priority, if you have problems I have the right to know as a partner and decide if it’s something I want to solve together or if it would be better to search for someone who matches you better. I’m more upset about the fact that he has lied to me than him watching porn.
Don’t shit where you eat
found the morally bankrupt cheater
Don't give him any more opportunity to weasel his way back into your life. Its over, whether he wants to accept it or not. You don't owe him any more of your energy. There's nothing for you to be confused about.
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It's rhetoric like this that halts progress and allows ableism to continue.
Guess the drugs didn’t kill his libido that night.
You have to decide if you can forgive him. He crossed so many boundaries. This would be my hill to die on.
oof, buddy. gf is the same way; we call it “having big feelings”, and she’s gotten a lot better with it in therapy, but i brought it up as something that upsets me and makes me concerned for her, rather than a value judgment at a poor attempt to mind-read her motivations.
sounds like you failed the mission
Realistically do you see yourself having a long term future with this man? Because if you do, moving in with him and his baby will inevitably mean you taking on some parental roles/tasks, if not now, then at some point in the next couple of years.
If you don’t think you are ready for that, or it’s not something you want for yourself (and there is nothing wrong with that) then I would say you are probably best walking away now before any of you get really hurt
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That evidence was gone the moment she had a story she was willing to admit to OP.
I replied to my comment with the Takedown notice so you have it. Yea it's common…there are also Attorney's they call Copyright trolls. Google it…
HIS MANHOOD EMOTIONALLY LMAOOO
Your girlfriend is unhinged; there’s nothing inherently sexual about changing a disabled person’s diaper, especially if they’re your own sibling.
Desperate for what? To have the apartment, which has NOTHING to do with you? Or to have the money from the apartment? For what, yourself?
Remember to come back and read these posts in 5 years. You'll be smacking yourself in the face wondering how you were in this deep.
You have to go. If you do not, leaving will be a thousand times harder. Just go. Do it today even, stay at a friend's until the real place is ready.
Weird
But at the same time, he is the most sincere and caring person I’ve ever dated. He always put my needs as his priority. We have the same hobbies (outdoor stuff) and always have so much fun together. Despite our differences, his family still welcomes me with open arms and treat me like their daughter – to a degree that my own family can’t even do.
So these “ignorant” people are more accepting and tolerant of your opposing views than you suspect your friends and family would be of his?
Coupled with the shame with which you speak of him. It's like you're trying hard not to say he's stupid. He sounds like a good guy, but that's besides the point. Do what is right for you. Unless you want to navigate through the constant feeling of incompatibility, it may be kinder to end things now. You're allowed to end a relationship because of that.
I mean, if the family condoned the behaviour it'll never get better. What happens if he continues to hurt people? They brush it off cause he's the first born son?
Nahh, I'd avoid the whole family and just let your bf know you don't feel safe or accepting of their behaviour, if he wants to be a part of the dumpster fire, than he can, but you have no responsibility to burn too.
Also, one thing to think about, if you ever end up starting a family with this dude, are you going to feel comfortable with his family and probably his brother being around your children? Will he accept if you don't?
Yeah.
If you’re sure you’re moving, and she’s sure she’s not….the relationship can’t work.
“I’ve been thinking more and more about moving away in the next —— months/years. We seem to be getting pretty serious and I’d love for you to move with me when the time comes. Is that something you’re going to be able to do?”
Do you have friends you could celebrate with? Valentines doesnt always have to be romantic. Go on a friend date. Get a group of people. Gi get lunch. Schedule a spa day. Buy yourselves flowers and then go home, pile on the couch and floor, and watch a movie. Just because hes a party pooper doesnt mean you cant still have a party.
And proposed….smack!!!!!
You are the nice guy, security and safe bet. She got some issues and boyyyy, excitement and oh oh oh…She is nearing that wonderful age of 30. Needs to settle for you. Exs to validate that she’s once been young, she always wants to be there, but this is unfortunately ain’t a Time Machine .
It’s your choice on what type and level of misery you want for the rest of your life. But if you had sex with her you better get tested right away.
Get the ring and your life back.
Man this guy is the king of gaslighters. He didn’t want to hurt her but has no problem lying and cheating on you. Be glad you found out now. Your family and friends were right.
Similar senses of humor, we talk about similar things, similar interests. We haven’t been in a situation where the gap has been called to attention, other than when i saw his age and brought it up.
Yeah, I've never seen an STI panal that tested for HSV-1, it's a special request thing here. Since it's a virus, his wife's immune system could've been repressing it on the last test, if she was actually tested.
Not sure why he's freaking out. Unless it speads into the eyes or throat (rare) it's pretty benign. My friends who had mono in high school have much worse long term effects from the Epstein Barr virus, and shudders people who had chicken pox as kids have a horrifying time with Shingles.
It’s okay, she’s explained a few times that SHE doesn’t think it was actually sexual assault so it’s all good! /s
But in all seriousness what’s done is done and sex should be completely off the table for the foreseeable future. I also have a hard time believing this is real because sharing the bf’s trauma with reddit after everything that happened seems pretty unhinged but I guess that’s the nature of this sub
Sounds like the “wrestling” is her cover for when you see her next and she has marks/bruises on her body that look like cheating. “That's not a hickie, it's a bruise from when we wrestled.” “That handprint on my ass? It's nothing, happened when we were play wrestling.”
She sounds all about her.
If you don’t look forward to seeing her then that’s not a good sign.
Of course you are fine afterwards. You are busy. It’s not the right reason.
You should want to see her. Thats your gut telling you.
Why are you on this post if you are trying to call out trolls, instead of genuinely being helpful and giving advice to people in need? Also English isn't the first language of everyone in this subreddit, by the way, get off your high horse.
He is an abusive narcissist alcoholic. I dated one for ten years. Please listen to me and leave. He is gaslighting you by making you think you deserve to be treated this way. You get stuck in a cycle thinking it’s all your fault and then they love Bomb you and then the cycle repeats. This is not normal. This is not real love. This will continue to get worse. You do not deserve this.
This is what happens when children are raised by narcissists. Gabriel is the golden child and OP sounds like maybe he is the scapegoat or lost child.
It's worth everything, Random Internet Dad.
I'm telling myself I've made so much progress and am beginning to believe in myself for the first time in my life. Your comment made me cry in a bittersweet way, sad because I haven't received empathy and encouragement like that from a father figure, and happy knowing that such kindness exists, and that we can all share it. Thanks again!
You’re right I agree…it reminds me of Miley Cyrus’ lyrics in her song “flowers “ …i just don’t know who I am anymore. Thank you ?
oh my bad. i was just trying to say that even if i was single, i would date an 18 year old fresh out of high school or even try and approach one. that’s the point i’m trying to get across to boyfriend but he doesn’t seem to understand that i’m not going to cheat nor do i want to cheat nor do i have bad intentions. he thinks i’m up to no goo
Yeah. You are to blame. He's talking to other women because he knows he can do whatever he wants and you'll stick around like a chump. He knows you'll never leave. Lol. You dumped a friend from your childhood because your boyfriend is a gardening tool but you won't leave your boyfriend. He's cheating because he knows he can. He's cheating because he knows no matter what he does you'll never have the self respect to leave him. There's no point giving advice because you know what you to. You just won't do it. I bet if you asked him to open the relationship he'd protest.
If you want to be in a relationship where you don't matter then yeah, stay with him. Shouldn't be hard. You're used to it by now. If, on the other hand, you want to save whatever fragments of pride you have left then leave him.
Your girlfriend deserves to have a boyfriend willing to make time for her in their schedule. You're resentful that she wants to spend time with you and do things together that she may like because you're stressed and have too much on your plate.
Something has to give and you either value her and your relationship enough to drop something else to make her a priority or it's probably not the time for you to be dating her or anyone else for now. Because whoever you date deserves to be a priority and deserves to have someone want to spend time with them the same way you deserve to have your peace and plan your time where you want it to be spent.
I feel sorry for your kids. They're going to grow up feeling like they're a dirty little secret or that they have something to be ashamed of. They deserve better treatment by you, their mother, and by their stepfather.
Your boyfriend doesn't have a relationship with his parents (probably because he doesn't agree with their racism etc) but you felt the need to push him to meet up. Maybe respect his choice not to have a relationship with his parents?
Too many changes in your life. You need to figure your shit out before jumping into any relationship.
Too many changes in your life. You need to figure your shit out before jumping into any relationship.
It’s her time of the month so she’s been very emotional. My guess could’ve been my tone when I said to move on, but I didn’t expect her reaction to be this big
Trust your gut. Trust but verify.
That seems the easiest way to have answers
That seems the easiest way to have answers
More hard dog water for you I guess.
His worry is a very real issue for men but that’s an odd time to bring it up
Is it possible He is gay and wanted a child?
He sounds like not really worth keeping, much less having a child worth. Please don't go through with the pregnancy, you will neverbeabletotake that back
Maybe the people you are around aren’t great either
Maybe the people you are around aren’t great either
Yeah boy was watching too much porn and thought that's pretty hard then after he tried it all he remembers is he just let 4 randoms rail his wife
Yeh this couple is done
You did the right thing.
Its not “over some BS on the internet”. Its her personality. Her total believe system is different from yours. It shouldn’t matter what “the internet says”, it takes a special kind of person to run with it. You and I read the same BS and we don’t believe it, so the fact that she does says something about who she is.
You wanted it to work so bad, you wanted a partner so bad, that you were ignoring all the red flags. She was not for you.
I know it sucks right now, but in the end you’re going to safe yourself from so much BS. You will be fine, you will meet other people.
I know I love her her so much she is my everything hey, I really feel like it's all my fault but I'm here how and I just want to treasure what ever time we have left with mey children and her, it's just so hard ?
Unfortunately, there is a very unhealthy dynamic here, her terms are not reasonable at all (I am a woman) :
1) When you stay at home, your career will be effected too. Losing your job every few years will sabotage any career opportunities you might have.
2) Yes women go under pregnancy and it can bd hot. But worker laws are usually adjusted to give a little leeway. For example, as a father you might not be able get maternity leave at the end of pregnancy but she can.
She says she is a feminist but that is not the main issue here, the main issue is her selfishness.
Any kind of relationship requires communication and empathy for others. She is solely focusing on herself, that is why she also expects you to pay bills (With which wage? Werent you supposed to quit your career?)
She is not modern(?), she is just self centered so she is picking out the parts she likes.
If you want to give a chance, you can make a final talk with her but to be honest with you I dont have much hope.
He knows. He just doesn't care. That's the sad reality.
I got my live-in boyfriend to start doing more around the house by replacing him. I'm now with someone who is invested in the state of our household and actually contributes to chores instead of pulling the “I'm just a dumb man” card.
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