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I get why you’re suspicious but at the same time you are invading his privacy, you should stop. I was in your shoes before and trust me you’re going to regret going through his phone. You’re gonna feel more guilty than relieved tbh, if you need reassurance then communicate that with him.
Honestly I think you’re the problem.
Spot on. Dude is obsessive in his need to know what his GF is doing at every moment of every day. Get a fuckin' hobby OP and leave your GF alone when she is doing shit. Jfc she's a grown woman
Have you both been tested? Nothing on the std front?
You’re perfectly fine for feeling so betrayed about this. Dating for over a year, she should’ve made it clear to you by now that she did sex work in the past, these aren’t just “ex boyfriends”. She met them on a site designed for sugar daddy relationships, and she was paid for her services.
Was she naive to try and pursue actual relationships with some of them? Yes, but I don’t think that in particular is something you should hold over her. It’s mostly two problems. Her having done sex work, and her lying to you about it (even if only by omission). You only found out because of her mother. How long would it have taken her to tell you otherwise?
You should speak with your gf and tell her how you feel lied to because she didn’t tell you sooner and on her own. Try to come to an agreement about what she and you can do to rebuild the trust in your relationship, if that means stepping back for a bit or whatever else. Like all problems, it takes open, non-confrontational communication and naked work to get through it. Don’t “blame” her for her past, more focus on how it makes you feel and her not telling you.
Though If either of those two problems are something you can’t get over, then that’s fine and you shouldn’t feel guilty for it.
Your confidence will start to rise once you stop asking for other people’s opinions of you.
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“Okay? Do I know you?”
Damn it, i almost coughed my lungs out from the laughter after reading that, brilliant.
people can be assholes when jealouss but calling someone a pedophile is a lot worse . I seriously wouldn't be able to live! with said person.
Generally just be clean, you don’t have to remove much hair. Shave most of your pubes, but probably leave a trimmed patch above your penis. Trim your armpits if they’re particularly long. Clean up your facial hair a little so it’s not too scratchy. The rest is pretty normal, even if it’s kinda long. Just make sure you shower before so it’s all clean.
Girls usually don’t mind hair and welcome it. But most people don’t like seeing a huge, untamed bush on their partner the first time you have sex. As you get into your relationship people usually stop caring as much. In my past relationships I usually kept it pretty clean, but I didn’t care if my GF didn’t shave so long as it was somewhat trimmed and didn’t get in my mouth during oral.
I'm a parent of kids 22, 17 and 16, I would strongly advise against any of my kids pursuing a relationship with a 27 year old at 18. You are both at different places in your life, she has a career and you're a college freshman (presumably as most enter college at 18). And honestly, I would have a lot of questions and possibly tough ones at that for any 27 year old woman who wanted to date my 18 year old son. Starting with, why can't you get a guy your own age and probably spiraling down from there.
Long term? He’ll have died of old age before you’re 35.
I guess only she can really know that, but she really identified with aromanticism like it was a lightbulb moment for her. I have asked her why she still does romantic things for me and she got really confused about it as well. I’m trying to help her figure it out but it hurts me in the process when her actions say ‘I love you’ but she doesn’t say it back
That’s unfortunately how life works as of rn keep your space from her after a while of working on yourself just simply message her hey how are you and take it from there and if you don’t get an answer don’t keep bothering her she made up her mind
I like him and I know as time goes on I will become a mother to his daughter. I really want my own baby soon and I’d raise her with my own children.
My high school boyfriend would do this. He's now my ex. This behavior is not acceptable and not even negotiable.
Would you date someone that had a swastika tattooed on them? It's not his having tattoos that you don't like, it's what is depicted and what it represents that you don't like.
If I knew a person with this type of imagery tattooed on them, it would make me doubt whether they were a safe person, even knowing it stems from their love of horror movies. There are many other images that could represent his favourite movies, yet he chose gore. And to me, that choice means something.
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Do me a favor op, ask yourself why a man well into his mid 20s can't get a girl closer to his own age? Why did he need to pursue a minor?
I get it, you felt thrilled an older man was giving you attention. How mature you must be right? The answer is not anywhere near mature enough to be dating that man. None of us at 15 are nor even at 18 to be pursued by a man 6 years older than you. It's time to wake up.
That reaction she had to you wanting to ask is highly suspicious mane i would get that checked out lol
Yes. This.
The father used his daughter to cover for his love affair and when exposed only cared if she should cover up? not what he has done to her. It’s exceedingly terrible and should not be swept under the rug.
She flirted with him, went back to his room and kissed him. That’s enough to break up right there man
Exactly. She deals with the consequences after that's her to deal with. Go find someone that is going to stay loyal to you
Sweet! If you guys ever do get further down the road on this, THEN you can go back and ask him. : )
Don't explain yourself to her. You'll just get caught up in a manipulative debate. You've got more than enough evidence to determine she's entertaining who she thinks is other men. You have your answer. Someone who is knowingly creating opportunities to cheat with strangers will probably cheat on you with a stranger. Any reassurance she would give you after attempting to “reconnect” with a romantically interested “stranger” is going to be straight up mental gymnastics. Be free, my boy.
Do you realize he is physically abusing you? That’s in addition to being a controlling asshole.
Nobody is too broke for a card.
So what have u decided if it continues this way and she keeps u at arms length ? How long r u willing to wait n watch ?
Well it could have been some random dudes trying to horn in on the girls fun. I wouldn’t really make much of it unless she was dancing in appropriately with them or any one dude then you might mention it.
Geez. I’m sorry this happened to you.
The naked truth is this: she can’t be trusted, and she wanted to keep you around for financial support.
Keep your great new job. Do not talk to your cheating ex gf who would STILL be lying to you if you didn’t have the screenshots.
You deserve way, way better than that, and I bet you’ll look up in four or five months and find that you’re happier than you’ve been in a long time.
And she loves you and has been with you for 7 years. Don’t discount that. She was unsure about a shy guy and now she is sure. Try not to overthink this. As a fellow shy person, we do t occur to ppl right away. That’s ok.
If you react negatively when he says he’s hanging out with them, it’s essentially the same thing as “making him choose”. It’s teaching him that there will be consequences in his relationship if he hangs out with friends (unless he lies about it).
Again, I don’t think you’re doing that on purpose. But my guess is that you probably show your discomfort in various ways that he is well aware of, so the “training” works regardless.
I know it’s not a popular view on Reddit, but I don’t think sharing all feelings about all things is inherently healthy in a relationship.
He’s not a neutral third party: he is implicated in your feelings about his friends. What is he supposed to do with the information that you feel like shit when he sees them? It creates a situation where he must willingly choose to upset his girlfriend every time he wants to see his friends. Does that make sense?
I’m not saying you were wrong to talk about it with him, just that you need to be mindful that when you “share” something like this you are also putting it on him — it becomes something he now has to deal with and think about and consider; he can no longer just enjoy his social time, because now social time = upsetting you.
It’s okay for him to know that this is something you struggle with, but my advice is not to involve him in the work of managing your insecurity and anxiety around this. That shouldn’t be his burden.
Block him.
The only reasonable response to “we can’t have sex for a while because of a health issue” is “ok, let me know when you’re ready.”
I understand that, maybe I didn’t phrase this better. The place only has a bed no couch or nothing. This is a dorm type place and it choosing between a guy who can’t force himself on her vs being attacked by people who will force themselves on her while she is on the way home.
“I hope my wife would be honest with me” As would I, but by your reaction, I would assume she would say no, leaving a ‘maybe’ in the air to avoid the volatile response.
Listen, you sound educated and I’m assuming your wife is too. She’s 35, I’m positive she knows the ramifications of an eight year commitment.
So if you take that into account – maybe she’s afraid of your response? Or maybe it’s the overly common reason: If I tell him flat out, he may leave me.
Why do you feel this way? Because regardless of how many times you said you don’t want kids – you want kids. Perhaps you too are suffering from “if I tell her I want kids she’ll leave” so you’re not being honest.
Need to sit down and have an honest heart to heart with your wife my man. Actually express your wishes and listen to hers.
TWO times?
That would absolutely be a dealbreaker for me if I was in your situation. Please be careful.
Me for caring? You're not caring, you're just being creepy.
Your step dad should realize what he did and that he is not your father. And your mom suggesting any different is ridiculous. This is obviously just to weaponize your marriage to hurt your father.
Seems like he’s being pretty intentionally obnoxious about it. I’m sorry you’re going through this. You could spend more time at friend’s/family’s. You could also have a talk and maybe agree that no one brings home a booty call until you leave, out of respect.
She’s weird and it’s a huge red flag it’s shady behavior and she’s probably cheating on you
If you're helping her get out purely because you care, that's fine. She's in an abusive relationship, she probably needs to get out. And I get that you wanna show her there are better people out there who cares for her, that's normal and understandable. Any friend who cares would want her out of something like that.
But…
The problem is, your intentions seems to be to get her out so you can wriggle yourself into a relationship with her. I'm not saying you're a bad person, I'm just saying your intentions maybe selfish atm.
Help her for the sake of getting her out of this bad relationship. Not because you wanna gain something out of it.
I read the title only and the answer is – medical school.
Precisely. Like just the way he even did this was so painful and uncaring.
Yes he could relapse again. He knows this was wrong and he was hiding it. I think you should move on.
That’s what the proposition was really. We get along well. And he’s getting out of the military in 3 years. He’s already started a business back where he lives and is running it remotely. He wants housing, and I want to get my ankle fixed.
If you stay with her, dump her after the show.
She knows how much you love this band, hence why she didn't have issue with sending back the money. The ticket had more value on the emotional side. Immature as heck, yes, so answer it back with the same immaturity.
Then bye bye
Couple of questions. How old is the relationship, and how far apart do you live! from one another?
Honestly sounds like it may be a compatibility issue. If you want to see him more than he wants to see you and it’s hurting you then at the very least it’s time to have a heart-to-heart about it.
Just let him know how you feel and see how he responds. If it’s not important enough for him to make more of an effort for your happiness then you know it’s probably time to move on.
Try to get back? That's hilarious.
Have you asked him if he’s married? This is not to say you shouldn’t believe your friend, but if you ask him and he says he is, then just say you’re not interested in married guys.
Maybe she was JUST a friend, not so much that you liked her that way. Have you had female friends before?
The people in this thread claiming that she’s probably packing the lingerie to take sexy photos for her husband while she’s away are the exact kind of people who would rely on such a preposterous lie when caught trying to cheat by their S/O.