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I don’t know if I’d call myself geriatric. I was a resident athlete at the Olympic Training Center at 35. I have always been more active than most 40 yos. I do not drink, have never tried a drug, and this was my first age gap relationship. I did not see the signs of drug abuse or alcohol abuse because I’ve never been around that and I understood that we had an age difference and she would do things I’ve grown out of or never was into.
I was stupid and I don’t disagree I need to step away for my sons sake and make better decisions. I just don’t get why the fuck it hurts so much? It shouldn’t, I didn’t get her pregnant. I’m not stuck in that shit.
Dude if she was slightly less drunk or the cops responding were slightly more dumb, your life would be over now. You already know you’re an idiot for wanting to go back, you said it yourself. Please don’t fuck yourself over, you can’t help her.
There's no words to describe how big of a piece of shit he is.
First of all, plan B is not just some pill. You can feel its effects months after taking it, it messes with your hormones, disregulates your cycle, it can have its side effects. He's literally putting his orgasm above your reproductive health.
Second of all, you should not be having sex with someone who plays dumb and buys “too big” condoms, and disregards your boundaries in bed. Plain and simple, no sex with that guy ever again.
Third of all, you shouldn't be with a person that treats you like a human fleshlight.
As someone that went through a destruction of a relationship caused by an opening of the relationship, its over before the suggestion even came out. Save yourself heartache and turmoil by ripping the band aid off. I clung to the relationship and made the inevitable split way worse. Im sorry for your pain
Tell her that while you appreciate the general thought of doing something nice for you, that fact that she thought it would be okay to have a friend take them, and to take hot photos as well (most boudoir shoots don’t go that far) is wrong.
Don’t worry about her feeling bad, she didn’t think about it when she got a friend to take these pictures of her.
You tell her that she needs to call him, and ensure he deletes all copies of those photographs.
She then needs to seriously think about what she did, and explain herself.
Form what you said in your post (that you were shocked at the gift) this is not something that you are okay with in general, not something that you have spoken about previously, and not something you thought your wife would do.
At the very least she has damaged the trust in the relationship, and she needs to start rebuilding it.
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She's threatened suicide before if I leave
Leave this abusive relationship immediately. Ignore the trans stuff, it's irrelevant and it's being used as a coercive lever against you. Leave.
I don’t know if I’d call myself geriatric. I was a resident athlete at the Olympic Training Center at 35. I have always been more active than most 40 yos. I do not drink, have never tried a drug, and this was my first age gap relationship. I did not see the signs of drug abuse or alcohol abuse because I’ve never been around that and I understood that we had an age difference and she would do things I’ve grown out of or never was into.
I was stupid and I don’t disagree I need to step away for my sons sake and make better decisions. I just don’t get why the fuck it hurts so much? It shouldn’t, I didn’t get her pregnant. I’m not stuck in that shit.
Contact the professor you do research assistance work for. That professor should know who to contact to get Wendy some help.
Dude if she was slightly less drunk or the cops responding were slightly more dumb, your life would be over now. You already know you’re an idiot for wanting to go back, you said it yourself. Please don’t fuck yourself over, you can’t help her.
There's no words to describe how big of a piece of shit he is.
First of all, plan B is not just some pill. You can feel its effects months after taking it, it messes with your hormones, disregulates your cycle, it can have its side effects. He's literally putting his orgasm above your reproductive health.
Second of all, you should not be having sex with someone who plays dumb and buys “too big” condoms, and disregards your boundaries in bed. Plain and simple, no sex with that guy ever again.
Third of all, you shouldn't be with a person that treats you like a human fleshlight.
You’re going to spend more time and end up getting crushed by an unfaithful wife.
As someone that went through a destruction of a relationship caused by an opening of the relationship, its over before the suggestion even came out. Save yourself heartache and turmoil by ripping the band aid off. I clung to the relationship and made the inevitable split way worse. Im sorry for your pain
Tell her that while you appreciate the general thought of doing something nice for you, that fact that she thought it would be okay to have a friend take them, and to take hot photos as well (most boudoir shoots don’t go that far) is wrong.
Don’t worry about her feeling bad, she didn’t think about it when she got a friend to take these pictures of her.
You tell her that she needs to call him, and ensure he deletes all copies of those photographs.
She then needs to seriously think about what she did, and explain herself.
Form what you said in your post (that you were shocked at the gift) this is not something that you are okay with in general, not something that you have spoken about previously, and not something you thought your wife would do.
At the very least she has damaged the trust in the relationship, and she needs to start rebuilding it.
5 minutes with an amazing partner is better than 2 hours with a random