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People do some strange things when under stress, and a break up, especially one that perhaps neither of you anticipated or even wanted is especially stressful. I can’t say for certain what his intentions really were but he may not have intended to actually do anything. Certainly from what you’ve written I don’t think he actually views you as so easily replaceable regardless of how it superficially seems.
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You choosing to be paranoid is up to you. She's not doing anything to hurt you in this scenario.
You go into therapy stay away from that woman
People do some strange things when under stress, and a break up, especially one that perhaps neither of you anticipated or even wanted is especially stressful. I can’t say for certain what his intentions really were but he may not have intended to actually do anything. Certainly from what you’ve written I don’t think he actually views you as so easily replaceable regardless of how it superficially seems.
Take things slowly, talk it through, be open and honest and build the trust again. Maybe it will work, maybe it won’t, but I get the feeling here this has got way out of control. If you can, professional help might be a way. Go with your instincts on this though and good luck.
“Hey, who are you texting?”
If he replies with something like, “Oh, nobody.”
Reply back with, “Really? I just notice that you've texted this person a lot.”