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Date: December 19, 2022
AmateurPub
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What are you getting out of this relationship that makes you want to stay?
First, drop one of your jobs. You have too much going on to try and keep two jobs.
Second, never mind supporting him while he is in school. Make him either go to Grandma for financial support, or take out student loans.
There, we just made your life a WHOLE LOT EASIER.
Now I won't touch on your mother's care here, but you can get some good support for being a family caregiver at r/CaregiverSupport. The people there are really kind and will offer both advice and emotional support for the task of caring for your mother.
Therapy. You guys need therapy.
I would have had the same reaction. This entire experience has been emotionally traumatizing to you. You might need therapy to feel validated and to be able to think clearly again.