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Room for on-line sex video chat Kristenbr
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Date: October 23, 2022
Irritability? Sure.
But if you're seriously talking about a few days of celibacy here, he can hold that irritability in and show a little empathy. He is not being very hot done by. Especially if you're sick, but you don't need an excuse or explanation to say no from time to time either. It's OK for your body to just not be available. I'm sure if he goes to work or school he manages to not grump all over the place.
Not trying to be noisy but, what was the issue about?
You're judgemental.. It's not preference what's causing this response of yours is it? It's straight up fat phobia.
Look I understand not wanting to date someone who's bigger than you, regardless of their reason. I do not feel offended by your post. I don't feel offended about your preferences. I'm also not fat, but I wouldn't expect you to know that. The thing is.. By insulting us (people who commented on your post, on an ADVICE sub) shows enough of your personality to give us an idea of how you are.
Best of luck, I'd suggest block him as I doubt he'd want to talk to you anyway.. I also highly doubt you're as sexy as you might say you are.. Especially with this personality
Or, even more likely: she doesn't correlate dressing up for parties to sex at all, and just truly doesn't feel like having sex.
I took this high road during my divorce. I kind of wish I didn't. Nobody knows about my ex-husband's cheating with a married woman. She also got divorced. I've had people tell me that it's “so nice he found her” after the divorce. Puh. She was his intern and they had been having an affair for about a year prior to the divorce.
Let people know what's up. You don't have to necessarily put him on blast or anything, but if someone asks just tell them the truth.
I swear “I’m sorry you feel that way” is the worst apology ever. Just say you don’t give a shit and have no plan to change the behavior I’ve told you hurts me and move it along. It would at least be more honest and still get the message you were wanting across.
OP – if you settle for this type of relationship now, you will continue to settle for the rest of your life. You deserve a relationship with good communication and a partner that cares about you and wants to make you feel good and loved. Where you are right now is the best your relationship with this man will ever be, is this what you really want?
Someone downloaded the Tinder app to his phone, made an entire Tinder profile, matched with girls in his area (not a different area), and talked to girls about things he specifically likes, but he says it’s not him?
Uh..he’s lying. Flat out..liar.
I can be calm and exasperated at the same time.
You posted in this sub for advice. I advised you to both take on a more mature perspective and ask directly for what you want.
If neither of those things work for you, all good.
I’m leaving her. You got the assessment right 100% train wreck and I want off the ride
Drop her
As for these men not admitting that the dogs are out of control, i have no idea. Could be a pride thing and not wanting to admit failure, or not wanting to put in the work for changing it.
Which then comes to question, why own a dog in the first place if you’re not gonna take care of it.
How can I let go fully? I’m catching myself in constant rumination and regret for the past.
It’s helpful to hear that she couldn’t compromise with my boundaries. It feels like it’s less ‘my fault’ looking at it that way. I guess the guilt that I did something wrong is what I’m most caught up about.
Thanks for the quick reply.
I know guys get hurt by rejection because I've been told by guys that rejection hurts. Everyone gets hurt by rejection. It sucks, I've been there and I'm a woman. And there's nothing wrong with telling someone you like them, that's better than saying something else and coming on too strong about it.
She keeps making comments because she’s not willing to give up her dream. Eventually she’ll dump him when she realizes he doesn’t give a crap about her wishes.
Please don't have a kid that you didn't want just because your boyfriend does want it.
You are only 22 years old. You still have plenty of time to have kids. You might not even be together with him in a year. He's in therapy, you're young and pregnant, you two don't agree on kids, and you're considering having it just because he wants it. You two have some issues that aren't going to be worked out very quickly.
Unless you want to be married and divorced before you're 30 and then be a single mom trying to date again, I'd suggest not having kids yet. You two have some incompatibilities that need to be talked about and worked through. And he seems like a bit of a pushover, so it might be hot. Don't steamroll over him just because he's willing to let you have your way on everything. That won't make a healthy relationship
Thanks, honestly until the group meet-up at the pub happened I had somewhat mentally moved on due to the lack of conversation between us. I definitely have messaged her too much in the past which I look back on with regret as it only hurt my chances of getting a positive outcome. Lately I’ve only messaged her in the group chat we’re all in and it’s only been in response to something she may have generally asked the groups opinion on. We all enjoyed the night out and she definitely seemed enthusiastic with the idea of doing that or something similar again. Hopefully with refraining from needlessly messaging her and just enjoying moments when I’m with her in person I can relight that spark that was once with her previously.
Even if we were “talking” and “exclusive” or whatever as long as we weren’t officially dating boyfriend and girlfriend yet? Just making sure.
Thank you for responding! 🙂
If you edit and add paragraphs, you may get more responses. It’s pretty hot to read in a block of text. ?
Reading your comments OP, and since you are searching for an explanation for him breaking up with you. Consider maybe it was a lack of reciprocity? You spoke about all the things he did for you and how helpful and loving he was to you and with you being so busy with work and school you probably were not able to provide the emotional/ physical intimacy needed to sustain a relationship. He probably started to feel unappreciated and maybe even resentful and burntout. I know it's a hot L to take but you will get over this.
Life lesson though, expecting people to pause their life while we get our own in order it's straight up unfair. Some partners are able to wait while their needs are put on the back burner. But for some people it's really hard to keep that up without starting to feel burntout.
You will get over it. Give yourself time.
We were married, so some of them yes?? That’s what couples do ?