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Date: November 8, 2022
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Yes I saw the messages. After the initial hookup they decided to be friends and that it was a one time thing. When he was in town she invited him over and one thing led to another. She still had an ex boyfriend she was communicating with and was open about that. They had a blow up because she thought she was pregnant and he blew her off (this was when we officially were back together) and then he apologized. Once she wasn’t pregnant they then talked just friendly about platonic things (it was like once a week or every two weeks). Their second to last convo she realized (assuming from social media) that we were back on and asked him about it. The “blow up” was that he told her he would only ever be with me and I’m the only woman he’s ever loved. Her ex boyfriend then contacted my fiancé to tell him to back off (I’m sure she put him up to it out of anger) and that’s when my fiancé blocked her because he saw her crazy pattern returning.
Your husband's method is absolutely disgusting, as is his attitude towards you.
He seems to hold some very concerning believes:
If he does not experience it, it is not real. He cannot smell it, so noone can. You telling him it smells should be enough.
You should do as he says just because he says so. If you don't, it is ok to yell at you. That seems like an increadibly sexist and old-fashioned view about marriage: the man as the wise head of the house who has the last say and the wife as the obedient servant.
That something really bothers you is less important than him proofing he is right. Even if you were the only person on earth who minded shit stewing in their toilet, he should be considerate enough to use the plunger. It is a small request.
You say his good sides outweigh the bad. You seem to be ready to use saint-like patience to compensate for his short-comings to make your marriage work because it is worth it to you.
You say you are not willing to teach your children his shitty method, which is absolutely reasonable. So giving in to his demands is not a good option.
So the only way to save your marriage seems to be to convince him he is wrong. I think you are the last person he will listen to in this. So could you talk to someone who he will likely listen to? His mom, dad, friends? Could you show him this post? Marriage counseling?
In the end you cannot force someone to change their mind. If you don't want to give in to his rudiculous demands and he keeps insisting on this, your only other option is divorce.
That's because you are a normal healthy minded person
Ik I trust him and ik he wouldn't do anything like that, but I just don't know what to do with myself do I try to become her friend? Do I ignore her? Like this is stressful for me
Leave.
Or if you don’t want to leave, then tell her that all you are doing is mirroring her energy and responses. If she doesn’t like it, then it’s time she looks at herself, and makes changes to better herself. Until she does that, she gets what she puts out.
Exactly, a reasonable person knows that something can go wrong. People have died from a single punch.