Yeah, unfortunately you can't control how he'll take stuff and can only control your own stuff. To me, when partners have use I statements like when I feel x when this behavior happens then I kinda go oh gosh, that's not at all what I intended to do in our relationship. Again though the dudes got to see it as a problem to change it though. Meaning he might not see this as problematic behavior until some boundaries or consequences are in motion. Definitely would recommend couples counseling or therapy. Both are pretty beneficial
Are you still working as an escort? Because you were posting about seeing someone else 15 days ago? What about your 'pimp'? Unless….your boyfriend of 3 years is your pimp?
I dunno judging by your post history your life sounds like a bit of a shitshow.
He isn’t trying to prove himself or making you feel comfortable. He’s not talking to you because he can’t tell the truth. Instead he is blaming you and making himself out to be the victim. Classic cheater defense. Someone wanted to give heads up because he wasn’t going to. Now it’s time for you to start investigating on your own discreetly. He is in cover his tracks mode.
Yeah, unfortunately you can't control how he'll take stuff and can only control your own stuff. To me, when partners have use I statements like when I feel x when this behavior happens then I kinda go oh gosh, that's not at all what I intended to do in our relationship. Again though the dudes got to see it as a problem to change it though. Meaning he might not see this as problematic behavior until some boundaries or consequences are in motion. Definitely would recommend couples counseling or therapy. Both are pretty beneficial
Go get tested. Tell her you have cold sores and are going to see the doctor. Ask her to come along. ?
Lots of fragile men out there who think their masters of the universe
Are you still working as an escort? Because you were posting about seeing someone else 15 days ago? What about your 'pimp'? Unless….your boyfriend of 3 years is your pimp?
I dunno judging by your post history your life sounds like a bit of a shitshow.
Hugs.
Proud of you..
He isn’t trying to prove himself or making you feel comfortable. He’s not talking to you because he can’t tell the truth. Instead he is blaming you and making himself out to be the victim. Classic cheater defense. Someone wanted to give heads up because he wasn’t going to. Now it’s time for you to start investigating on your own discreetly. He is in cover his tracks mode.
Is it worth reaching out (after a month or so) to apologize and try to have a conversation?
No. Leave him alone. It's utterly disrespectful to read someone's personal journal without their permission. You fucked up.