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hard [Multi Goal]
Date: October 28, 2022
AmateurPub
AmateurPub
hard [Multi Goal]
Tell her and then update us bc we are nosy as hell lol
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Sit down with him and tell him what happened, and have a laugh about it.
If you meet his mom tell her why you didnt go there anymore, apologize if you want to. If she doesnt understand or doesnt like you because of it that thats fair, you're not dating her. You can propose a “feresh start” to his mom and let it be forgoten.
This can branch out into other areas if your life. It’s something to consider getting therapy. Just to have someone objective, that’s educated in the field, to talk to.
Secondly long distance relationships are not for everyone. They’re not for me either. Did it for a year and a half and wound up a shambles. I currently have the love of my life. We each had LDRs that wound up ruined. We are too affectionate for it. We luckily live only 20 minutes away from each other.
In your case you’d need someone closer. That’s something to consider. If your girlfriend could move closer, or vise versa, that might help. However I wouldn’t do it now. You’re both quite young. Wait this out. Get therapy first. Start journaling. Go go go until your hand hurts. This is for you and no one else.
In the meantime, curb it with the “what ifs.”