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I think your fiancee has made the right decision, and your backing him all the way is the right move on your part.
One suggestion–Hire some outside security for the venue(s) for the day of the wedding, just in case Dad 1 decides to show up and cause trouble. Your fiancee should not have to spend his time that day trying to keep the peace.
“Here's his name, here's a picture. If he shows up at the church/reception, do not let him past you, ask him to leave the premises, and detain him and call the police if he won't go.”
Op if he was so amazing you wouldn't have this anxiety of telling him your on bc. If he were so amazing you'd tell him your anxieties and he would 100% support you and keep using condoms. This isn't a healthy relationship.
You can inbox me anytime. You don’t have to be alone. You have the strength to get away from him.
Please. Your brother didn’t give up on you. He just doesn’t want to keep watching you get hurt because you don’t take his advice. He’ll help you. Your family wants you away from him. I promise. No matter what this guy says.
If you are living together, start by getting in touch with your family. Start getting things you’ll need to them, like important papers. Clothes and makeup can be replaced easily. Then make your plan to go there. Change your phone number. Block him everywhere. Get a restraining order as soon as possible. If he texts or calls you repeatedly, emails you a lot, leaves threats on your voicemail, etc, that’s all evidence for both a restraining order and a harassment charge. Ask me how I know. (For seven years my ex still got arrested when he got pulled over for any reason due to my out of state warrant for harassment.)
If you want to talk, message me. If you feel safer on here, respond any time. And please do update.
Rejection is part of life.
Staying silent is also encouragement for the cheating!!!! And exactly that op!!!! Exactly that!!!
Hey OP. I went thru this from ages 17-19 (I'm 26f) and it's like looking into a mirror. I almost died. In fact years later I still have permanent medical issues from the toll anorexia took on my body. It's very difficult communicating with someone who is going through an ED.
My advice would be to avoid triggering her or saying things that cause her to get defensive (discussing her body AT ALL, her eating habits, pushing for hospitalization, etc). That sounds backwards but I'm not saying to encourage her, just that you have to support her in a way that works for her. If she's busy defending herself from you and her family, she can't spend the time coming to the conclusion she needs to recover. Usually (not always!) eating disorders are about wanting control / lacking control in your life. Ask questions to understand why she's doing it. If you really make yourself someone she can open up to that she feels won't judge her, you can get some actual answers.
Instead of saying “you need x(therapy, inpatient, to eat, etc)”, you can ask questions to better get into her mindset. Ask why she's afraid of recovering or what is scary about therapy. You can also help reduce the stress her ED causes her. For example, don't spring a huge family feast on her, give her warnings. Offer to take her out (in advance) to get some of her safe foods, tell her you want to work together on things. Tell her you don't understand but you're there for her and will listen without judgement. You can also try to empathize and get on her level “I will love you no matter what you do” (and if she says no you won't you can say “would you stop loving me if I were in your shoes?” or “what makes you so hot on yourself when that isn't how you'd feel about me”, etc).
You can also point out sheer statistics. The likelihood of death, the likelihood of chronic illness, etc all being a result. You can even find stats for her BMI, which might make the dangers more real to her.
This is really long but I wish you both the best. If you ever wanna talk, or if she ever wants to talk with someone who has fully recovered, my inbox is open.
Just say hi. Introduce yourself if she gives you the opportunity and follow her lead from there.
Emetophobia is quite a serious problem- it’s associated with OCD, not with other phobias like spiders or the dark. It’s not a boyfriend problem, it’s a you problem. You and a therapist who is trained and has experience in emetophobia. Don’t let them start with Exposure Therapy techniques, there’s little real evidence of it working in these cases (as you’ve already discovered).