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It goes from that to 'I only hit you once' to 'I didn't leave a mark' to 'Well you didn't have to go to the hosptial' to 'it was only 8 stiches' to 'You're lucky I didn't kill you' until you're at the funeral home, wishing you had 'said or done something'.
As you stated, condoms don't matter with herpes. And herpes is a virus so needs the 6-8 weeks for you to built up the antibodies.
Omg I just came from a post about a woman's husband who literally killed her dog…but she still loves him
It sounds like you're having a hot time with a few issues. Not just the gift giving, but you feel like your giving 100% all the time and not getting the same effort. That's a super fair feeling. I don't really get the other commenters a bit. I don't think this is an unrealistic ask at all, getting your spouse a gift on a holiday is super basic. Having ADD is not an excuse to just skip out on this. Especially since it sounds like you have made it clear it's important to you.
I think saying “don't bother” was a bit much but I can understand how your upset. you might want to just say I'm giving you a seven day grace period to make this shit right. Your an adult and if you don't treat me like you care I'm going to stop thinking you do. I don't know. That sucks. It's fine to be upset just try to not say anything you'll regret.
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You cant do much worse than that, literally any single guy out there would have a 98% chance of being a way better partner.
In my experience, great sex rarely means good relationship compatability.
Women also produce more oxytocin during sex than men. It is the hormone that makes you feel more attached. So you are getting a big hit of that where he isn't… so no, it is not universal and he does not experience casual sex the same way you do.
This is not fair nor is it okay. He is being absurdly controlling and insecure. I’d strongly caution against getting back together with him.
I dont understand, youre fantasizing about the outcomes of dating her but dont want to date her? Then…dont date her? From your post she actually didnt follow you around and just sat in the break room. Has she verbalized any of this to you herself? You are hanging onto that this is high-school but im starting to beleive this situation is actually in highschool and yall are actually students because this is all childish.
If you are habitually yelling at her, that IS toxic (you can call it a raised voice if you want, but a raised voice directed at someone is just yelling by definition) and verbally abusive.
I know it can be very difficult to picture yourself as abusive, because to you it seems reasonable. But for context, I’ve been with my fiancé for over 6 years and we have not yelled at each other once. I have not raised my voice at them, because I love and respect them enough to “argue” with a rational head and take a step back when I am getting too emotional, and the same is true in reverse.
Normal, healthy couples with loving relationships don’t “raise their voice at each other” habitually. Especially when you know that it bothers her, and she doesn’t want to talk about it, etc.
I highly highly highly recommend you continue with counseling.
It’s not confusing. He’s abusive, this is how abusive people act. You’re not being rude, he wants to make you think his behavior is your fault so he makes up lies to get away with his abuse. Leave now bc it’s only going to get worse.
Did he do that?
Only time will tell, as well as how willing you are to change your behavior in times of stress. I'm betting she feels deeply betrayed, trust is a difficult thing to earn, and an easy thing to lose.
We aren't defined by how we deal with the good times, but rather how we deal with bad times. Work on yourself, you will end up a better person for it. You could try to contact her, but I suggest an attitude of contriteness on your part. A good first line could be “I understand how much I have hurt you, and I feel absolutely terrible that I treated you that way. I'm sure you dont want to see me, but I'd like to try to make it up to and express my extreme regret.” If shes done with you then you have to accept it and leave her be. The loss felt could be a good motivator to change behaviors.
So every week you pressure her for sex?
Maybe, just maybe… he’s also hurting and the easiest way to forget is cutting ties – sharply.
I suggest she's not ready for marriage.
The reason is irrelevant.
Take the hint (she's trying to let you down gently).
Don't cry of beg (she won't pity you or respect you).
Frankly you sound like you dont know her very well. Step back and give her room.
Separate. Stop organizing her life and solving her problems. She needs to experience life without you to lean on. Respond to her texts or calls 24 hours later.
If I'm wrong in my assessment, she should immediately do back flips to reassure you that she's committed.
Displaying nothing more than your wild insecurities and obsessive jealousy, this ain’t middle school and it’s not cute. You need to grow up and get a grip. Accusing a grown woman of being “fake gay” because you’re desperately clinging at straws for a reason to ruin your “friends” happiness is unhinged. Your “friend” deserves a more trustworthy friend because you sure as hell aren’t one.
That may be, but for the reasons I have said above, it's not a good idea. It leaves her in a very precarious state. If it works for you then great, but it's clearly not working for her.
Cut your losses and skip town, leave both of em, you don't like abc and you don't deserve your original girl.
Just chalk this up as one of those painful life lessons
You can be a good, involved parent WITHOUT being in a relationship. I wouldn’t want to “work it out for the baby” if it wouldn’t have worked out otherwise. That’s a recipe for resentment and a messy breakup years later.
I agree with other comments to look at small claims. One of my jobs is a mediator for my local small claims court and some helpful notes:
Small claims is made for people representing themselves so don't be too apprehensive about it but if you want there are lawyers who do a consultation to help you get on the right track for a small fee. Most courts will have a handbook live that will let you know what to expect but honestly going in and watching how your court does it is super helpful (my court does block scheduling and it's frustrating for people who don't realize they may not get a trial the first time they are scheduled since it's dependent on how many judges are available).
You will have to prove your damages (my court's burden of proof is “by preponderance of the evidence,” which means more than 51% likely) so you are going to want pictures, receipts, if you don't have receipts something extrinsic proving the value of that item, etc.
My court's soft (honestly rarely followed) rule is each side gets 15 minutes to present their case so you are going to want to have your evidence in a cohesive format. The best I've ever seen was someone who included a paragraph “label” with each picture/document explaining what it was and how it proved her damages so if the judge took it under advisement rather than ruling on the bench (which usually happens if there is a lot of evidence to sift through) they had that at a guide.
Lastly, even in the best case scenario this will take time and effort. Unless you hire a lawyer, you are going to have to be the one to “prosecute” your case. That means putting evidence together, presenting it, appearing in court, responding to any motions, etc. As I mentioned, if your local court runs similar to mine, you may have to appear multiple times before your case is heard.
I didn’t backpedal at all, I just gave you more context about why I called them both dicks. And the dick bit came hours and hours into Mother’s Day. I have no reason to lie and have been completely honest here. What’s your take on the fact he called me a weirdo?