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KITANA WINS FLAWLESS VICTORY, 19 y.o.
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Date: December 13, 2022
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i'm simply asking what i should do whenever i run into people i have dated and it didnt work out, in general. i just used this one example as a demonstration of something that recently happened. but i know i'll have more run ins with people in the future.
“I plan on doing a lot of dating”. Well then get used to it.
This is an early Christmas present situation, definitely. He'll still love it, and it'll be a huge relief to him in the moment
So is it his personality/behavior or the fact that he is bi that is causing the problem?
Ugh you're right yeah I need to. It'll just feel worse for them if I leave it
It makes me sad that I don’t know
This should be a flag….if your bf was serious, he'd actually communicate with you and you'd know where you stand.
He often mentions how I should find someone that can meet my needs
Sounds like he has no actual plans to take things further with you…once his parents say “time for an arranged marriage”, he'll move on.
But I love him-
Love is never enough.
. I’m trying to learn more about Islam and study his family’s language. I’m really going above and beyond.
What effort is he making? Whatever you do, don't just convert for an SO….
She was uncomfortable and pitiably is t the kind to call you out in person. I’m guessing “that’s funny” is what she says to diffuse awkward situations. You really need a filter. There was no reason for you to tell her those things. You seem possessive and obsessive over her
Like doja once said Niggas ain't shit. Pull up in yo crib can't pay rent. And spoil other bitches. Sorry. Not sorry.
It's only a matter of time until she leaves.
You keep avoiding telling off your family. Grow a back bone qnd support your wife. It's easy to ignore it and not go round as often. But what is that solving? You need to fucking have a go at them.
Lol young girls are capricious af. Get used to this going forward…
Sounds more like the issue is that you had fought about something earlier in the day, and then you chose to go out drinking with your friends without her rather than resolving that issue. Is that a possibility?
Why are you putting in all of this effort for an addict who could care less about the damage she’s inflicting on you?
Stop thinking with your heart and your dick, and start using your BRAIN. This girl is poison.
Just ask her why, say something like “Does it make you feel good to be hit on?” If she says no, then listen to her concerns as it could be unwanted attention. If yes, make sure you start hitting on your GF more. She may enjoy it because you stopped with the consistency you did when at the beginning of the relationship.
Why would she need to be all dressed up, in her home, in front of the MIL who lives nearby enough to drop off groceries regularly?
You and your wife sound mighty high in the instep!
you do NOT pay for that car . she wanted it she does the repayments.
Although you make is sound like an odd reason to break up – it is not. You are not the priority in this threesome, and your gf tends to treat you childishly. You also are perfectly entitled to want to live solely with a partner and any children that might arise. Not friends, uncles, aunts, assorted relatives or strangers that your partner believes should live with you. That's a major lifestyle disparity – you aren't on the same page. That's a huge and very valid reason to end the relationship. Move on to something less complicated, and where you and your partner are equally invested in your relationship.
I understand that and I’m disregarding that trust me but do you mind telling me what you would feel if there wasn’t such an age gap and if not that’s ok too. I appreciate you responding at all
Leave aside the politics surrounding both trans issues and bisexuality in men, and ask yourself why the
intoxicated rage
part of the story isn't enough for OP to be out the door?
Maybe she's evil for wanting to be with a straight/cis guy or maybe she's normal (or both, or neither, opinions differ!) but regardless of all that stuff she shouldn't be with a raging addict.
Share it with other people…reasonable.not sharing it with the person who is the father and your husband…fucked up.
He sounds gross
I’m a healthy weight but my bf mentioning wondering how I’d look if I lost more weight, I already planned on losing the weight so although I told him it was kind of fucked up and that curiosity was a him problem I wanted to lose a bit more anyways so it’s fine
The next day he messages me saying “hey I don’t know what I was thinking but don’t worry about it anymore” and ever since then he’s adamantly trying to get me to eat food and I ended up lecturing him because he just wouldn’t stop trying to get me to eat when I didn’t want to, AND no, although I do have a very unhealthy relationship with food, I do not have an ED
HOWEVER if I wasn’t planning on losing more weight I would have told him so, and if he tried to push on the matter I WOULD have broken up with him.
Weight is a different matter, I use this excuse to showcase how STUPID your bf’s preference is. A hairstyle? Really? That’s absurd. And to put him in a bad mood? Fuckin really?
Yeah. You're in the right. Lots of red flags. This was already a situation you weren't conform with, rightfully so, and even though you allowed it, she kept pushing the time back over and over again. Then, when you found her, she was in close proximity with him in a car, and she thinks you're crazy and distrustful?
Yeah. No.
Yeah. You're in the right. Lots of red flags. This was already a situation you weren't conform with, rightfully so, and even though you allowed it, she kept pushing the time back over and over again. Then, when you found her, she was in close proximity with him in a car, and she thinks you're crazy and distrustful?
Yeah. No.
Asked her how about R rated films showing boobs. Last time no porn, old boys used that or playboy/penthouse mags to jerk off.
Anyway this is a bigger issue.
So people are pulling away from him with things they know he'd like or that he has expertise in? Obviously a full diagnosis isn't really possible over text, but some of the things you've said stick out because you've chosen to highlight those. And they stick out to me not because of my profession this time, but because I knew someone who had similar traits and got similar treatment.
A friend I made in high school was someone I originally wanted to get close to because I felt sorry for them. They were excluded in a lot of stuff and it seemed almost like bullying although nobody went out of their way to do so. When I got to be friends with her, she turned out to be really funny and smart. More than that, she was mature, having her shit together in ways most of us didn't have to at that age. And I once had one of my other friends complain that I brought a “mom” to a party because they couldn't relax around her without her looking down her nose at them. Thing is, she didn't judge them at all, and wanted to join in having a laugh. But because she was mature enough to have a limit where she'd stop herself and they weren't, they felt lesser and therefore were sure that she felt they were lesser. And so to make themselves feel better, they just excluded her from everything.
Now here's where things get truly sad. She and I went to different colleges and universities and we ran into each other maybe five years after high school. Around me she was that same funny girl, still mature but no longer beyond her years, and with a hint of nervousness that wasn't there before. Honestly, it was kind of endearing until I saw it bloom. See, around me she was the same girl but the moment strangers were introduced she closed up and defences went up, and when I left her with those people to hit the bar she apparently went fully silent. My friends thought that she felt they weren't worth bothering with, but the fact is she was so gun shy when it came to people deciding she was a killjoy that she projected that with people she didn't know now.
Again, obviously I don't know your partner or the particular circumstances and I'm just going off what you said here. But if he got seen as the protector and mom friend to the point people were uncomfortable having fun around him, and that triggered some bullying trauma that makes him push away or pull himself in when people get close then this could explain a lot of the issues going on here.
Now, it's worth mentioning that I don't think this is the whole deal. You've had comments already mentioning a low presence individual as an option. This could indeed be how he pulls away, making others not think of him at all, while you who he's comfortable with get to see what he's really made of.
Woah. Ditch this loser for someone who will actually respect you. That should be your bday present to yourself!
I think you’re right to think that you need time alone to grow as a person. If you don’t learn to love and handle yourself you’ll keep recreating the same dynamic with any partner you have. You can do this!