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kira-fulkers Public Chat Channel
Date: November 6, 2022
AmateurPub
AmateurPub
kira-fulkers Public Chat Channel
Trust your feeling!
“After 3 months of dating she convides in me she’s here illegally because she didn’t update her visa..She was being honest and gave me an out if I wanted it” – guilt trip! Emotional blackmail.. test to see if you're an idiot (how you feel).
Why she would give you “out” if you wanted? She shouldn't pull you in in the first place! She should kicked you out .. she wasn't honest, lied by omission for 3 months in order for you to get attached during a “lovebombing” phase. How can you abandon someone who's lovebombing you, making you feel special, making you believe they are your soulmate… You failed to recognize the manipulation!
Live! and learn buddy! Always trust your gut!
You are not special, nobody wants to be inseparable from you and act like a teenager. Go Google lovebombing!
This isn’t real. As of last year, (android and iPhone) if an AirTag has been following you for more then a mile (if it’s not registered to your phone) it will send you a notification you can’t close. it will also let you see who’s phone it’s tied to as well as report them.
So i guess your phone just didn’t give you a pop up you can’t close until you interact with 5 different windows. Or you’re lying
You get to feel how you feel. But I guess I don’t really understand why your feelings matter more than his or why you can’t comprise at all if it’s so important to you that he join you.
I dunno. My family lives pretty far away so I only visit once a year usually. In the last 20 years, I’ve had a partner come home with me maybe a total of 5 times. I always get a hotel room regardless of if I’m alone or have my partner with me.
Meanwhile, as their family is close by, we see them several times a month. But not for an overnight, just a couple of hours here or there. No way would I want to spend a week at his family’s home or on a trip with them or whatever. That’s just too much.
That was my first thought. My second thought (which is very common for me in this sub) is that this could be another “creative writing” post. It's the way people “yada yada” over major and important thoughts and details and then just ask “should I have a secret abortion.” That doesnt read like someone wanting advice. That reads like someone who wants people to interact with them.
Nah, I find it embarrassing when a SO does it publicly. I mean, people look at other people, sure.. But leaving an actual trace of what you look at? No thanks. I’ve seen men who had gfs leave those traces and was never surprised their relationships didn’t survive. Leaving such a trace (seeing your BIL liking pics of a pornstar for example) also tells the person in the pic; ‘Hey, I’m watching!’ So they wanna be noticed, ya know?