I feel like the weird one, coz I always tell the opposite what everybody else, but I wouldnt tell her. – he is divorced (if I read it right), so its only his and your business – you are both adults (yes, there is a huge age gap, but he didnt really lied to you, he was straight)
Was it strange, creepy? Yes. But its not a sin, no need to ruin your coworkers relationship with his father just because you had 5 awkward minutes with him. Plus – he said he was married for 30 years. No wonder his pickup lines are that lame, give him a break he was out of the game for a few decades 😀
He tried his luck, asked you out, you said no. Its the same if the 29 years old guy from the next building come by every day and ask you out. Probably you wouldnt make a big deal about it.
IF he keeps coming back and not accepting no, than its a totally different story.
No but if you two aren‘t compatible, you should break up. Don‘t force your values onto him because he clearly doesn‘t want it. You set a boundary, he didn‘t respect it and he won‘t change his mind. You two aren‘t compatible (which is absolutely fine).
It is called abuse and no it is not. Leave him immediately.
I feel like the weird one, coz I always tell the opposite what everybody else, but I wouldnt tell her. – he is divorced (if I read it right), so its only his and your business – you are both adults (yes, there is a huge age gap, but he didnt really lied to you, he was straight)
Was it strange, creepy? Yes. But its not a sin, no need to ruin your coworkers relationship with his father just because you had 5 awkward minutes with him. Plus – he said he was married for 30 years. No wonder his pickup lines are that lame, give him a break he was out of the game for a few decades 😀
He tried his luck, asked you out, you said no. Its the same if the 29 years old guy from the next building come by every day and ask you out. Probably you wouldnt make a big deal about it.
IF he keeps coming back and not accepting no, than its a totally different story.
No but if you two aren‘t compatible, you should break up. Don‘t force your values onto him because he clearly doesn‘t want it. You set a boundary, he didn‘t respect it and he won‘t change his mind. You two aren‘t compatible (which is absolutely fine).
Why u are changing anything ?