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Striptease Show [Multi Goal]
Date: February 17, 2023
AmateurPub
AmateurPub
Striptease Show [Multi Goal]
I'm glad you're going to leave her. Since you mention covert narcissism in your comments, you might want to go to the various narcissistic abuse subs here like r/NarcissisticAbuse r/narcissism.
You also need to get yourself to a therapist.
Since your friends seemed to be suckered by her image, they will probably not be helpful. Identify your ride or die friends who will support you and be prepared to cut people off if they can't respect your boundaries.
You need to get yourself together before you break up-figure out a safe place to go, get your absolutely most important stuff (meds, documents, small keepsakes) and GO. Break up after you're gone. Figure out when you're going to get larger items etc later but do so as quickly and directly as possible. Once it's done, go absolutely NO CONTACT. None. Whatever happens after the break up with her is not your problem. She will probably do a looooooooot of things to get you to talk to her again, but keep to NC because every time you talk to her, you're back to ground zero. Trust me on this and good luck.
He choked you, then started painting you as a hysterical liar that exaggerates to cover his own ass. (Because he knows what he did is wrong.)
You planned an entire Indian wedding (and I'm not Indian, but I know how much work and planning and stress goes into it,) and he couldn't give a single shit, to the point that you had to have a friend stand in for him!
He played on his phone instead of being present for a family event.
In addition to being abusive, he's a rude asshole.
You guys quite simply don't belong together. You broke her trust and she has double standards that stem from these trust issues. It seems like you don't entirely trust her either.
I read that over a course of two days you called her 20 times and texted over 20 while she was ignoring you. You have her GPS location, you guys are logged in each other's accounts. This is toxic and absolutely crazy on both ends. You don't know when to stop, and she doesn't trust you so she wants all your passwords.
Please, for the love of god, break up. You both need therapy.
How can I say it any clearer…there is a difference between withholding sex and physically being incapable of performing.
It has only been 2.5 weeks so that's probably why I'm still unable to trust him. That said, he has been trying to show me with his actions that he's trying to change (beyond making an apology). I guess it'll take time like you said!
As a father, I would be mortified if my daughter chose to dance a father daughter dance with someone else. Especially if we had a good relationship. If I were estranged, absent or abusive I would understand. If none of those conditions exist, the stepdad should not want to step on my toes. If I were a stepdad I would have to understand.