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Let me feel your vibs and make me go naughty!! PVT Open [90 tokens remaining]
Date: November 7, 2022
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Let me feel your vibs and make me go naughty!! PVT Open [90 tokens remaining]
3 year age gap is the absolute limit at that sort of age, anything more than that starts to get a bit creepy.
First of all: you did nothing wrong, don't let him bully you into thinking otherwise. You told him how you felt. You communicated, which is what is supposed to happen in a relationship.
A person is always allowed to feel what they feel. You felt offended and hurt at a boundary being crossed, that is your right. His reaction, to behave like you're crazy, completely invalidates those feelings. He does not respect you.
I've been in such a situation before with an ex of mine. I told him “this girl is crossing boundaries for me; she's trying to flirt with you all the time”. He dismissed my feelings again and again, even gaslit me at times. Guess what. He ended up cheating on me with her.
“why would he get married if he wouldn't be his own person anymore!?” Yeah ehm, he now believes marrying you would entrap him, instead of it being a loving commitment to each other. You could try couples counseling if you feel like this could be saved, but from my own experiences, I would run.
Yes the marriage contract explicitly states it protects only women ???
My apologies. I misread that.
The most disconcerting part is the erosion of trust. If there’s one thing that I need in a relationship, it’s trust. Trust and communication. So two things lol. He seems to lack both.
If someone actually loves you they tell you the hot truths. They communicate their fear and vulnerability and let you decide how you feel. They don’t withhold relationship defining information. They don’t keep you from knowing the ugly things about themselves and present a fake version of themselves.
We all lie, but his lies are too far imo. It’s probably a very hot decision to make hence why you’re here asking for help. Remember that there are worse things than being alone. Sometimes we get carried away with new relationships and don’t see people for who they are when they show us. He’s showing you who he is. It’s up to you if that’s the kind of person you want to be with.
She said that she heard a rumour that her sister fucked her ex so she thought I was fucking her sister so she said it incase she was being hurt.
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It's so depressing how far I had to scroll to see this answer.
Going out of your comfort zone is perfectly fine and healthy. Having a naked limit is also healthy. It sounds like you’re taking it to the extreme and shutting out compromise.
The second two paragraphs of this last comment are far more logical than your first comment.
>It feels like an ultimatum, but he kinda already made it that when he decided to impulse-buy a dog.
Remember that next time you buy Dad a dog he doesn't want but you do Mom.
Well obviously I didn’t think of it or I would have lol. That’s much better
I’m not refusing to move on, I am moving on, my life still has to go on and I don’t want to live! in self pity. So if he’s not going to do anything then I’ll just continue to on-line my life and hope I’ll meet someone I’m meant to be with. Work hot, go on holidays, enjoy life as much as I can.
Let the trash take itself out. Hugs!! Get a good lawyer like yesterday
When you’re ready to settle down after finding the woman you want to spend the rest of your life with, she will find out about that time when you were 25 and were fwb with your friend’s 18yo sister. She will be absolutely disgusted by you. And she will find out about it because this will blow up in your face.
So much for that “in sickness and in health” stuff I guess…. WOW
He basically told me he’s dealing with a lot (so he says), yet he’s actively posting on social media, and doesn’t want to talk now and has been shutting a lot of people out. Again, I don’t know what’s true and what isn’t true, but I gotta respect that and expect to never hear from him again.
Divorce was always an option rather than cheating. Choosing to cheat means that you’re the kind of person who could constantly lie to their SO. Justifying it any any way doesn’t speak well of you.
Get rid of her .