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The biggest problem here is his deception. Not telling you he hired a babysitter was intentional because a part of him KNEW you’d be upset and insist your family help out, that’s why he didn’t tell you, the truth is the EXACT OPPOSITE of what he said “that you’d met her and liked her so it was no big deal” if it was no big deal why did he hide it?
I hate to break it to you but there’s 2 reasons: 1) he thinks so little of your concerns and feelings about how to raise your kids/parenting decisions and that’s haughty arrogance that is also a controlling tactic. 2) he’s fucking “daddy’s helper”.
I don't think you or her necessarily did anything wrong.
I think she talked about it with her friend and then her friend told her that she needs to be more assertive and tell you when she's uncomfortable or anxious. Your ex didn't have the guts to do it herself, so the friend felt the need to step in and speak on her behalf. At least that how I think things happened between them. Maybe the friend wanted to sabotage your relationship, or maybe she really was just trying to help, who knows.
I do find it odd that she needs someone to ask her every time they want to kiss her. Sounds to me like she has some hang ups she needs to work through and it doesn't have anything to do with you. She has a right to her boundaries, but you also don't have to be in a relationship with her if you feel like she's asking too much of you.
In the end, it probably was for the best to break things off with her, she needs to sort out her insecurities, and you can move on and find someone else to share your life with.
Contraception is YOUR responsibility, not just hers. If you want vaginal sex and dont have the foresight to keep a condom with you atcall times, dont have sex. You DO know pregnancy can happen with unprotect sex whether or not you climax inside her, right?
Comon man, youre 22 for gods sakes. Time to grow up.
If she’s not willing to adjust her expectations in any way, you two may just not be compatible. It’s not reasonable that you’re meant to give her a blow-by-blow of your phone calls. Who wants to feel like they’re living with the gestapo?
She understands on some level that this amount of yakking is not who you are. She doesn’t seem to understand that personality transplants aren’t available.
Is there anything at all that you do that you would like her to do & she just doesn’t do it? Anything she just won’t do because it’s not who she is? If so, liken your “no desire to talk for no reason” to that thing she doesn’t do.
Or just annoying, off key ? “Eccentric”. There was a guy who desperately wanted to be my friend a while back. He was nice but he made my skin crawl with his delivery. Just an off guy.
The biggest problem here is his deception. Not telling you he hired a babysitter was intentional because a part of him KNEW you’d be upset and insist your family help out, that’s why he didn’t tell you, the truth is the EXACT OPPOSITE of what he said “that you’d met her and liked her so it was no big deal” if it was no big deal why did he hide it?
I hate to break it to you but there’s 2 reasons: 1) he thinks so little of your concerns and feelings about how to raise your kids/parenting decisions and that’s haughty arrogance that is also a controlling tactic. 2) he’s fucking “daddy’s helper”.
Possibly, or probably, it’s both.
It's a shared living space all people living there need to be ok with it
I don't think you or her necessarily did anything wrong.
I think she talked about it with her friend and then her friend told her that she needs to be more assertive and tell you when she's uncomfortable or anxious. Your ex didn't have the guts to do it herself, so the friend felt the need to step in and speak on her behalf. At least that how I think things happened between them. Maybe the friend wanted to sabotage your relationship, or maybe she really was just trying to help, who knows.
I do find it odd that she needs someone to ask her every time they want to kiss her. Sounds to me like she has some hang ups she needs to work through and it doesn't have anything to do with you. She has a right to her boundaries, but you also don't have to be in a relationship with her if you feel like she's asking too much of you.
In the end, it probably was for the best to break things off with her, she needs to sort out her insecurities, and you can move on and find someone else to share your life with.
Contraception is YOUR responsibility, not just hers. If you want vaginal sex and dont have the foresight to keep a condom with you atcall times, dont have sex. You DO know pregnancy can happen with unprotect sex whether or not you climax inside her, right?
Comon man, youre 22 for gods sakes. Time to grow up.
nope the last few times we called, i asked, he left within 10 minutes each time to hang out with his friends. i gave up lol
Damn this breaks my heart. OP, wake up.
That's a mature way to take it, and good luck to you!
If she’s not willing to adjust her expectations in any way, you two may just not be compatible. It’s not reasonable that you’re meant to give her a blow-by-blow of your phone calls. Who wants to feel like they’re living with the gestapo?
She understands on some level that this amount of yakking is not who you are. She doesn’t seem to understand that personality transplants aren’t available.
Is there anything at all that you do that you would like her to do & she just doesn’t do it? Anything she just won’t do because it’s not who she is? If so, liken your “no desire to talk for no reason” to that thing she doesn’t do.
Or just annoying, off key ? “Eccentric”. There was a guy who desperately wanted to be my friend a while back. He was nice but he made my skin crawl with his delivery. Just an off guy.
You explain to her that you did what you could given the budget and with the shopping trip last week… if she can't accept that fuck her dude