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Birth Date: 1999-10-20
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Date: October 22, 2022
He was one before we met, which is why it's difficult for him to get over things i have done. I've already been through the regretting my choices phase ,I've accepted and come to terms with the things I have done because I cannot change it
I know and I wouldn’t ask for him to commit or anything now, I’m mostly just sad that I realised my feelings too late etc. and now I have the options of continuing in an undefined situationship which makes me kind of anxious and upset in of itself or biting the bullet and ending it now but missing out on that little bit of extra time with him
INFO: who owns the home? Also, aren’t you concerned about her living with a forty year old man as a roommate?
Why did you marry him? He doesn’t seem to respect you at all. I wouldn’t tolerate being in a relationship where I am never heard and all my requests are ignored. I wouldn’t be surprised if he’s actually in love with this friend of his and just using you. Don’t let his friend move in, they’ll try to kick you out.
Have you tried taking the Love Languages quiz with your boyfriend yet? Everyone has different ways to show their love to their partner.
Your love language might be quality time together or acts of service (which sacrificing time out with a friend might be considered) whereas he might be more gifts, words of affirmation, or physical affection.
If this holds true, it would help you understand why he didn’t think to stay home with you 2 hours before your birthday whereas for you, it’s a no brainer to stay home with him for his – the particular love language you are looking for to feel loved may not be his strongest attribute.
For example, I’m big on words of affirmation. Definitely love to hear kind words from my husband…. But he sucks at it because that love language is low on his list. His most important love language is quality time, whereas that isn’t as important to me. So he writes me post it notes to cater to my love needs and I make an effort to invite him to our team happy hours or go to his company’s happy hours to spend more quality time with him. Both of us feel more loved once we took the time to find ways to strengthen our love languages to more closely align to our partner’s language.
Good luck. Hope it helps.
I agree therapy would be great for my mum but she'd never go. I am trying so hot to be compassionate towards her because it's completely not her fault and she's my mum, I love her! But I have to protect my baby. I think I'd have a little more patience with it if she was working on it. So while I have very little hope she'll agree I will suggest therapy.
I don’t quite understand what this means in the context.. could someone please explain?
So what are you suggesting? You won’t buy a home with her but object to her buying her own home. What exactly is it that you want her to do? She is ready to move on with her life and settle down. Whatever the goal is here, let her know straight up and then make some decisions. If I was ready to purchase, I would break up and purchase with a roommate to help with rent. I wouldn’t wait for your permission if I were her.
Don’t even tell her that it’s canceled. Let her find out the hot way. Every time you reply she’s just creeping back into your life to continue to manipulate you.
I'm a problem + solution guy.
Send out your resume to 3+ places.
Then break the news to her. Say, yes I've lost that job, but I'm already on the hunt for the next one!
Be confident, not scared. Otherwise she will be worse off than you.
Rehome the sweet pup to an experienced dog owners of large dogs. Your fiancé & the dog will never get a long. Baby dog will NEVER trust your fiancé.
Please do not get another dog!
Your fiancé does not sound like an ideal dog owner. He should have been going to all the training etc . I also don't know anyone who yells at a pup!
Maybe a cat would be better for him. Nothing wrong with that!
You know that SHE suffered for 9 months too, AND gave birth, right?
She suffered a heckin lot more than he did, and they both survived the experience.
Is a baby now going to interrupt her career?
This may be the way to go and I may be impatient and just want an answer now. The major issue I keep running into is feeling like she is indeed indifferent toward me…
Doesn’t mean he needs to take it out on you, assume you’re going to do the same, and try to isolate you by not even letting you WORK without him. Giant huge red flags here.
He is a doormat?
You could always get a Nintendo DS. You can pick on up for less than $50 probably, then for around $20 you can pick up an R4 gold and play all the games. Its a DS cartridge that has a slot for an SD card. Just load game ROMs on the SD card.
Obviously you don't hang out here enough.
But hey, if you didn't want all opinions why did you even post?
What is your fear in doing so?
Why are you trying to normalize cheating? ?
He's single and can do what he wants yes, but you are also allowed to have dignity. I don't know why you are being down voted for asking a valid question.
The whole block to avoid adult/vulnerable conversation thing is so immature and self centered.
Sounds like you'll be okay though and he's dojg. You a favor. Let him go party and be single, he'll be feeling pretty dumb once you have a real life with a real partner.
Attempting to police your partner’s friendships can only lead to dysfunction and toxicity.
Your insecurity is your issue to deal with. No therapist on the planet would prescribe “banning your bf from speaking to his female friend” as a treatment for YOUR anxiety.
I half thought that. When we first got together we were on equal enough salaries (I was earning only ever so slightly more) and he offered to move into my new place at the time with me and split the rent as it was pricey. In doing that he gave up a pretty sweet place he had with some guys at a very decent price. He's never really brought that up but I'm conscious of that sacrifice. It's only been in the last few months, with him first being unemployed (and couldn't pay towards the rent in our next place but I understood and could manage) and then when we moved into his folks place to save better and finally with him having this not great paying temporary job, that he's become so territorial with my own money.
I can see some logic on the storage unit re costs of paying to store stuff I'm not even using, but the comment about my money being our future resources really gives me some pause for thought. And then his insistence on it even though I said I want to keep it for at least the first 3 months we're travelling has been uncomfortable.
The recent car contribution cost was the first real red flag for me.
Is there any gentle way I could get him to just accept my point on the storage unit and close that chapter? The car I can make some contribution to but the storage unit is “my thing” as far as I'm concerned using my money.
Have you ever watched the film when When Harry Met Sally? Sally the main character has fallen in love with her best friend Harry but hasn't realised it yet. She finds out her long-term ex is engaged and breaks down and calls Harry over. Sally admits she doesn't like Joe anymore, she would never date him again, she's upset because he told her he was never ready for marriage and the truth was he didn't want to marry her and she's wondering if anyone will ever want to marry her. Spoiler alert: someone does want to marry her.
Could this be what happened to your gf?
I’m just so mad right now.
Who on earth is this psycho girl who needs every one of her four roommates to inform her anytime they have someone over or she’ll pull out a deadly a weapon??? This sounds like an accident waiting to happen. I think you’re smart to keep your distance and I have no idea what’s going on in your boyfriend’s head.