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Thank you for the advice.
Thanks for your advice. I was thinking the same thing, with dating my coworker. Additionally I don't really know him and maybe we wouldn't even be compatible past this attraction. I've talked to my bf a couple of times and told him that I feel so disconnected and more like best friends than lovers. I just wish he would initiate kisses, cuddles or just holding hands when we're out together (which I told him about a million times so far) but it seems it's not that important to him which then makes me feel like a buddy and not his gf.
This might just be over. You told your girlfriend you love her about as much as you love your job and you’re surprised she’s leaving you?
Maybe she’ll get over it and come back. If she does tell her how much you love her and how sorry you are you made her feel unloved and that she’s worth more to you than a job. And if she doesn’t come back, leave her be. It’s fucked up you’d say something like this and I get why she’d never come back. I wouldn’t.
Wouldn't you rather be loved for who you are than loved for what you're not? You're right the man that wants to spend the rest of his life with you won't care if you have no makeup on, wearing his sweatpants and t-shirt. You're trying to change yourself…here's the problem with that. Eventually the real you always shines through…dont try to become what You think he wants because it never works. Do not put him a pedestal…what he won't do for you another man will. I'm 44 yrs old and never once has my spouse told me I have a Mom butt! This is insight to your future so pay very close attention to his actions and how kind his words are. Who you marry is the most important decision you'll ever make. I suggest talking to your Mom…And Please listen to her advice with open ears and an open heart. Nobody else loves you like your Mom.
Most women I've met end up similar if not exactly like their mothers, It's just how it is.
Update? I gotta know how you did it. Glad you left him, he didn't deserve you.
I was in this same exact situation! Which was the domino to the demise of my marriage (sorry, not saying this will happen to you!)
I understand what your partner is feeling. His life is upended because of his affair and now his reality is drastically different, which is uncomfortable for him. However, a Christmas party is only granular in the grand scheme of things. The feelings are absolutely still there for him. Especially because of the “what if” scenarios in his head. I don’t think it’s wise to even attend this function at such a raw moment in your relationship. He’s going to be bummed out because of it, but honestly it’s for the best. You attending the party will result in a series of uncomfortable thoughts and it’ll project to others on what’s going on. There’s no way of hiding it. There will be many more parties but if your relationship means something, he’ll wake up and understand it’s for the best. Talk it over and don’t allow him to convince you that it’s a good idea because at this present moment, without doing the work to fix it, it is not!
To salvage what you guys have, he realistically needs to change jobs. Them being around each other will only make things worse. It’ll make him resent you down the road. You both need to have a discussion as to what led him to have the emotional affair. Couples therapy works to uncover these issues and to provide a safe space for both of you to speak.
Wow, in sucked at the level of responses and all you had to disclaim! I'm glad you guys talked and patched this up!
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This behaviour is disgusting. Even if you weren’t grieving, his behaviour is bordering on abuse. You deserve someone who supports you and makes you feel safe and loved, not like a warm sock.
Your Mum wouldn't want this kind of life for you.
I am so sorry for what you're going through.
Your boyfriend is clearly an asshole. We’re all on the same page except you. This has to be fake smdh.
If this isn’t just rage bait, it’s embarrassing that you can write all this shit out about him and still be left wondering whether he sucks or not. Dating the basketball star doesn’t count for shit if he has poor moral character.
Is there any chance you could fly to him to meet?
At the end of the day, if you two are each-others 'one', he won't bend to his parents approval.
I am sure once we gets settled into adult hood (only 20 right now), he will be more capable of detaching from his parents leash.
Unfortunately, if a reletionship were to happen, this has a chance of being a permanent thing… but there is also the chance of them accepting you once they get to know you and see how their son feels about you.
Also… who wouldn't want their child dating a doctor? That sounds like a winner.
I think you owe it to your connection to meet up at least once and see how you two are in person.
I'm not a man and I would resent being made to feel guilty for not reporting back to someone who wasn't even out with me that night. It's not normal for anyone I know to do that.
Seriously, the lack of respect he has shown you and your relationship is astounding. How could he possibly justify his actions.
Then to claim he can’t have sex with your or can’t finish. If his breathing issues are that limiting, he should see a doctor.
I understand you are invested, pregnant and probably a mess of hormones. However, he’s an AH. He’s Lied to you, so there is a good chance it wasn’t just a hand job. Which could open you and the baby to health risks. He did this to you at least twice. Chances are great he’ll do it again.
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You’ve been dating since you were 19 right? You’ve wasted 5 years on this old fart
Unpopular opinion but you seem to have a lot rules about what he does that are directly related to YOUR insecurities. Maybe after a few drinks he realized he was already in nude water and said fuck it. It seems that he’s not exactly that into you anymore and that’s why he’s drinking with other women. I’d assume he told you in the hopes it would be the catalyst to the end.
You are correct in every single way. I never wanted this though, all I wanted was my friend back and a happier house. The thought of hurting my partner like that genuinely upsets me.
Yeah this is toxic behaviour on their part …
Instead of putting all the pressure to you, she should just be the one to propose already, if she wants it that much
Your clock is running out. Get a good physical to determine your chances of carrying a pregnancy. Give him a girl timeline of your plans to have a baby.
Men can screw around forever while waiting to have a baby. Women cannot. You need to decide what is important to you and stick to it.
dude you should separate. You had enough self control to stop yourself from being abusive which is good, but you are clearly spiraling. I understand that you don't want to be like your dad, but kids growing in an emotionally devastated household are not better off then kids growing up with single parents. Its a different type of trauma. You guys should separate and try co parenting.
It’s creepy to me that you say you’re in love with someone you’ve dated two weeks. And morsel that you’re not just walking away as he is clearly a project to you.
He’s not in a place to be dating.
Oh bless your heart
My ex did this. My opinion is if someone is so depressed that it is harming their relationship, finances, and career, and they’re already in therapy and it’s not doing enough, it’s probably time for an antidepressant. If he’s like my ex and refuses to take one, then you can see where his priorities lie and they’re not with you.
i know for a fact his mother buys the same exact kind and he would eat it so that’s why this so insanely frustrating. there’s been many instances of his gluttony with food but the oatmeal and the tasty cake situation (him eating the last one after me getting upset he ate the entire rest of the box himself) for some reason feel especially spiteful
OMG For real!
This is completely a You problem, and you are the only one who can address it.
The thing is, how you view this guy/situation is a symptom of your disease. There are always going to be flirty people. There are always going to be people your girlfriend (or any girlfriend) is going to find attractive. That's just human. I'm not saying your girlfriends will cheat etc., I'm just saying that just because people are in relationships they are not suddenly struck blind. There are attractive people on the planet, some will flirt with your SO. Some might even hit on her. There is ZERO you can do about that – but you can do something about how you react to it.
If you don't get a handle on your insecurities and anxieties, this will undermine not only this relationship but every one you have after.
The only thing I can suggest is, recognize that even if the absolutely worse thing that could happen does happen (whatever that may be to you) you will recover. It will suck and then you will eventually be fine. The world will not end. You will handle it. If you can believe in your own resilience, then these fears won't have as much control over you.
If this is truly tearing you up, I suggest you find a therapist to talk about your esteem issues.
Good luck OP.
I was gonna ask her for her number if she agreed to come with me but hey you're probably right. But I don't think that should be reason enough to reject a guy lmao
Dude just fucking ask her out already.
Dude just fucking ask her out already.
They are alt, you aren't. So there's no common interest involved. If any of them were to actually try to date you, 90% of the time would be spent trying to figure out each other. Why would anyone bother? Everyone is likely there intentionally to find persons of extremely similar interests.
Yeah, it's too toxic to continue. Need to move on.
Nothing is as I said to someone else’s comment is that I don’t want to choose between them, but I feel like the situation is pushing closer and closer to that every day. It’s really been stressing me out because after college we all go to the same bus stop to go home and I can tell she gets pissed off when my boyfriend is getting on my bus and she has to get on her bus alone and go home. The thing is I have explained to her why I want to spend a lot of time with him. She knows we are in an intimate relationship and we do things when we come back to my house things that she should definitely not be there for ahah. I just don’t understand why she can’t accept that I can’t be with her all day every day.
Yup. Once that enters into the picture, the relationship is effectively over.
She's not mature enough to be in a relationship right now. Which is fine, you both are so young, not everybody is ready at the same age. She, at 19, is not. Find someone who have different goals right now if that's what you want.
Go to another room. Play music. Put on headphones. Talk a walk. Going deaf is really the only thing you can think of?
This is the most fucked up thing I’ve ever heard. He needs to leave, you keep your home. Oh, and never speak to either of these assholes again.
How’s that relationship working out now? You sound a little bitter
He’s said that and it’s fair. I get it. I guess I just feel I need to understand the friendship better to feel comfortable and I’m not really getting the full perspective.
I’m sorry, I think this is the beginning of the end for your marriage. Good luck.
You come up with that little diddy on your own or is that some handy phrase you keep in your pocket? There's other variables to consider.
“some girls love other girls like mommy loves daddy” like its really not that nude. they even make picture books for this topic specifically now.