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He choked you, then started painting you as a hysterical liar that exaggerates to cover his own ass. (Because he knows what he did is wrong.)
You planned an entire Indian wedding (and I'm not Indian, but I know how much work and planning and stress goes into it,) and he couldn't give a single shit, to the point that you had to have a friend stand in for him!
He played on his phone instead of being present for a family event.
In addition to being abusive, he's a rude asshole.
His health issue isn't your responsibility. If he gets backed up, it's his own damn fault for not masturbating. Does he have some sort of trauma around that?
Are you diagnosing OP's wife?
No but I think her request is utterly inane. If I want quiet time or to hang out on my own with friends – I don't ask my spouse to leave her own house.
Shes more mad, saying I should have rang her at work so she could sort it out.
I get defensive and frustrated, Im not willing to apologise in the moment as I struggle to see how Im to blame. Frankly I think shes annoyed over a none issue as we have enough meds to last anyway.
Here's where you go wrong. You can't control her actions; only yours. Stop worrying about who is right and who is wrong and own up to your side of things. These things shouldn't turn into fights. You could have just said, “Oh I'm sorry, I assumed you wouldn't want me to bother you at work. Next time I'll give you a call to make sure.”
Now, here's the important part: if you want to have a talk about HER side of things, don't do it in the moment. Wait until there is a good time to talk. Neither of you is upset, tired, busy, etc. THEN you can say, hey I'm trying to work on not being defensive, but when you speak to me in that way, I feel angry and I tend to lash out etc. Do you think you could please try to speak to me like X or Y instead of Z in the future?
He’s worked at it before but once he starts drinking it’s a fast slippery slope, I’m hoping he can learn to pace himself better but anytime he goes too far I’ll be putting myself in the situation to deal with that. Logically that means he quits drinking but he won’t want to go out if I’m drinking and he’s not. Seems like if I wanna go out drinking with my boyfriend it can’t be him.