You’ve been dating for 2 years and there were some serious red flags at the beginning. You continued the relationship and have now proposed to this woman? Why?
Have you talked to her about this? Have you laid out boundaries? It seems like you were perfectly ok with her behavior and now all of a sudden want to confront the ex? I don’t get it
I would, but I would need to know what’s changed, why things have changed for her. Ultimately, I think she takes the relationship for granted perhaps and is struggling to make a decision and breaking up and time apart might fix that. The title is perhaps misleading as she said she doesn’t necessarily want an open relationship to begin immediately but thinks she does at one point soon perhaps. (Reading between the lines I’d say she means now!). I appreciate your advice!
Not worth it. Telling you he’s not interested 7 months down the line and then having a change of heart the next minute. What does that even mean? The week after he might change his mind again. Skip the heartache and save yourself some time. Plenty of fish and all that.
I got married to a guy 9 years older than me when I was 23. I’m 38 now. I feel like he stole my early 20s. I hate the fact that he took advantage of me at such a young age. You have so much life to live, don’t get hung up on some dude you haven’t even met yet. Believe me, it’s not worth it.
This is ridiculously toxic. It’s bad enough that he’s regularly going through your phone and devices and creating these scenarios in his head, but the eavesdropping through a bug is now on an illegal level. You need to end this.
You’ve been dating for 2 years and there were some serious red flags at the beginning. You continued the relationship and have now proposed to this woman? Why?
Have you talked to her about this? Have you laid out boundaries? It seems like you were perfectly ok with her behavior and now all of a sudden want to confront the ex? I don’t get it
I would, but I would need to know what’s changed, why things have changed for her. Ultimately, I think she takes the relationship for granted perhaps and is struggling to make a decision and breaking up and time apart might fix that. The title is perhaps misleading as she said she doesn’t necessarily want an open relationship to begin immediately but thinks she does at one point soon perhaps. (Reading between the lines I’d say she means now!). I appreciate your advice!
Separate your finances 1st!!
Tell him to go live with his parents!
File for divorce and custody!
Do not stay married to this AH!!
Not worth it. Telling you he’s not interested 7 months down the line and then having a change of heart the next minute. What does that even mean? The week after he might change his mind again. Skip the heartache and save yourself some time. Plenty of fish and all that.
I got married to a guy 9 years older than me when I was 23. I’m 38 now. I feel like he stole my early 20s. I hate the fact that he took advantage of me at such a young age. You have so much life to live, don’t get hung up on some dude you haven’t even met yet. Believe me, it’s not worth it.
Well then just leave.
This is ridiculously toxic. It’s bad enough that he’s regularly going through your phone and devices and creating these scenarios in his head, but the eavesdropping through a bug is now on an illegal level. You need to end this.