Guys are notorious at missing clues. I mean really bad when it comes to signals. Get him alone and seated in a soft chair. Straddle him, kiss him for more than three seconds, stand up and tell him it's his move, and he better take it. He'll get the message. BTW, his mixed signals are probably because he wants to be more than friends but is afraid of being less than friends. The 'friend zone' is torturous for guys.
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You're not like those other parents though. Other parents don't have a choice and are heartbroken that they can only have their kids once a month. You are thrilled to get married and to only see your daughter once a month. How can your daughter possibly be happy about this?
I think you're romanticizing your irresponsibility. If you had her, a tether, you could save and go on a cruise. I don't think you thrive on positivity but instead impulsivity.
I think it sounds like you can learn a lot from each other before you get legally tied together. There are ways to have fun that involve planning, or do spontaneous things that don't cost money. There can be common ground, and if you see her logical mindset and hesitancy as a necessary part of a working system instead of a setback, it may be more beneficial for all.
She lies. She cheats. Yes, OP, sexting is cheating. I'm not surprised that you will never trust her again. A relationship without trust is doomed.
It's up to you on what to do. If you want to reconcile, at a bare minimum, she has to change jobs and block the AP. Then work from there. If she is not willing to do at least that, there is no chance of reconciliation.
100% this!
Take the hint…
Guys are notorious at missing clues. I mean really bad when it comes to signals. Get him alone and seated in a soft chair. Straddle him, kiss him for more than three seconds, stand up and tell him it's his move, and he better take it. He'll get the message. BTW, his mixed signals are probably because he wants to be more than friends but is afraid of being less than friends. The 'friend zone' is torturous for guys.
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Oh, they deleted. Lol.
You poor thing hahaha
You might be numb from shock or you might have lost feelings a long time ago and just now realized. I dunno.
You might be numb from shock or you might have lost feelings a long time ago and just now realized. I dunno.
You're not like those other parents though. Other parents don't have a choice and are heartbroken that they can only have their kids once a month. You are thrilled to get married and to only see your daughter once a month. How can your daughter possibly be happy about this?
I think you're romanticizing your irresponsibility. If you had her, a tether, you could save and go on a cruise. I don't think you thrive on positivity but instead impulsivity.
I think it sounds like you can learn a lot from each other before you get legally tied together. There are ways to have fun that involve planning, or do spontaneous things that don't cost money. There can be common ground, and if you see her logical mindset and hesitancy as a necessary part of a working system instead of a setback, it may be more beneficial for all.
Good luck.
It was a 6some
It was a sextet ?
She lies. She cheats. Yes, OP, sexting is cheating. I'm not surprised that you will never trust her again. A relationship without trust is doomed.
It's up to you on what to do. If you want to reconcile, at a bare minimum, she has to change jobs and block the AP. Then work from there. If she is not willing to do at least that, there is no chance of reconciliation.
Good luck