I get that, and I can totally understand spending time with a S/O if you got together recently, but, it's more than just prioritizing, it's disregard. For a little over a week straight we would say “we're both free tonight, let's do a phone call or text later” and I would be waiting to talk to her and she'll reply as she's going to bed with “sorry hung out with my boyfriend, tomorrow we can do that.” And then we did a short(10-20 minute) phone call where she gushed about him after all that.
I’d be weirded out too, if that was my partner. In my mind you aren’t overreacting. The question is what to do now. You have voiced your discomfort and she doesn’t take that seriously. That’s a bit of a red flag in my mind.
ehh seems like your friends problem. I'd still let your coworkers know that wasn't ok to say.
I get that, and I can totally understand spending time with a S/O if you got together recently, but, it's more than just prioritizing, it's disregard. For a little over a week straight we would say “we're both free tonight, let's do a phone call or text later” and I would be waiting to talk to her and she'll reply as she's going to bed with “sorry hung out with my boyfriend, tomorrow we can do that.” And then we did a short(10-20 minute) phone call where she gushed about him after all that.
I’d be weirded out too, if that was my partner. In my mind you aren’t overreacting. The question is what to do now. You have voiced your discomfort and she doesn’t take that seriously. That’s a bit of a red flag in my mind.