I recommend not moving into a house he purchases until you are married. If your intention is to have children, you need to protect yourself and your future if things don't work out. I'd kindly say that you are not comfortable making this decision until you are married and want to participate in the process of such an important milestone
You need to tell her. Speaking from experience, I'm someone who needs affection and my ex seemed to at first, but as time went on she became less affectionate. An affectionate person needs an affectionate person, imo. It's my belief that you will need to break up because this isn't going to work. Your friendship is probably over too after this. My ex wanted to stay friends with me after our break up, but it didn't work as I still loved her. Anyways, the sooner you let her know, the sooner she can start to heal and try to move on.
Everyone is capable of rage given the circumstances. I don’t think you have done anything wrong here. This may be something she needs to work out with a professional.
I recommend not moving into a house he purchases until you are married. If your intention is to have children, you need to protect yourself and your future if things don't work out. I'd kindly say that you are not comfortable making this decision until you are married and want to participate in the process of such an important milestone
You need to tell her. Speaking from experience, I'm someone who needs affection and my ex seemed to at first, but as time went on she became less affectionate. An affectionate person needs an affectionate person, imo. It's my belief that you will need to break up because this isn't going to work. Your friendship is probably over too after this. My ex wanted to stay friends with me after our break up, but it didn't work as I still loved her. Anyways, the sooner you let her know, the sooner she can start to heal and try to move on.
Everyone is capable of rage given the circumstances. I don’t think you have done anything wrong here. This may be something she needs to work out with a professional.
She's abusive. Never go to a couple's counseling with your abuser, they just learn new ways to abuse you while you're vulnerable.
“She just went along with what she thought was the professional.”
Please tell us you are not this stupid. Either that or your wife used to take the little bus to school?
So if it was an intended lie, I still shouldn’t be upset?