If he makes 6 figures a year, he should have at least $300,000 saved by his age if he plans to be in any shape for retirement. You're going quite well, at $70,000, by age 30.
You should also both have a rainy day fund of ideally about 6 months of expenses (rent, utilities, morgage, food, etc.) in case of emergencies. You never know when you're going to have an accident or get sick or get fired and be unable to work.
The two of you have polar opposite approaches to dealing with money. The ideal situation is probably somewhere in the middle, with him saving more and you spending more. But in the meantime, I recommend keeping your finances totally separate, until the two of you are on the same page about these things. if your relationship is serious enough, you could even consider seeing a financial counselor together.
Your mother's house…your mother's rules…hang in there…when you get married it will be different.
If he makes 6 figures a year, he should have at least $300,000 saved by his age if he plans to be in any shape for retirement. You're going quite well, at $70,000, by age 30.
You should also both have a rainy day fund of ideally about 6 months of expenses (rent, utilities, morgage, food, etc.) in case of emergencies. You never know when you're going to have an accident or get sick or get fired and be unable to work.
The two of you have polar opposite approaches to dealing with money. The ideal situation is probably somewhere in the middle, with him saving more and you spending more. But in the meantime, I recommend keeping your finances totally separate, until the two of you are on the same page about these things. if your relationship is serious enough, you could even consider seeing a financial counselor together.
Good luck.
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