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hello guys welcome I hope we have a great time tonight.
Date: November 15, 2022
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hello guys welcome I hope we have a great time tonight.
Maybe that's the issue, she has to deal w it 24/7 but you wanted to end yourself from just doing it for a little bit. So you can understand why she's miserable, she's done it for longer
Divorce
Why are you with him when he doesn't trust you? Asking for a pattern test is NOT normal at all in a healthy relationship.
The way we metabolise alcohol isn't fixed. Sometimes it hits harder than usual.
You made the right decision.
Maybe don't attend the rest of his life either.
Sometimes love isn’t enough. These ppl want you to convert and snip your dick!? Imagine what they’ll ask of you down the line. You know what love is? Unconditional. And this ain’t it.
It's going to take time. And money. I have neither lol
You spend 1 week X 12 months or you have only spent 7 days together over a year?
It’s been fine so far, thank you. I’ll check in with you in a few years to let you know how it’s going.
I really like that analogy. This is something that many rape victims struggle with and wonder if it was “really rape” since they acquiesced. The mugger analogy is a great way to approach the topic
it seems too absurd to be true but it has this weird sincerity to it a lot of those fake posts have.
Of course. I’m happy for you !!!
36 and…19? Good god. Horrifying.
Let her go. She just showed you who she is and it’s not good.
That relationship is part of his life and his memories. And even if it was toxic or ended badly: There are still memories of happy times he wants to keep.
Stop thinking that your boyfriend has to eradicate a part of his life just because that part is over and that woman doesn't mean anything to him anymore.
Anecdotally, I have friends that were skinny and active. When they were in long term relationships, they told me they realized they don't really need to be active and watch their weight since they were in a serious relationship and they sort of let themselves ago. Luckily for them, their partners didn't care. Their partners maintained the same weight.
Just pointing out that this might be what OP's girlfriend is feeling. She's feeling settled and felt no need to look attractive.
But he can always date younger no problem. There are plenty of young, in shape women he can easily replace his gf with. Every year a whole new batch of women turn 25. He’ll be fine.
I am also totally not interested in this
I 25M Cannot deal with my 28F mental health anymore
I am really starting to struggle holding my problems and hers, I am struggling to sleep and I have massive bags under my eyes because of exhaustion.
So why are you staying in the relationship?
Thank you ??
Thank you ??
Trust but verify.
Let him go when you’re ready you will find somebody he will want only you. He’s manipulating you. Don’t do anything you don’t wanna do. Here’s another thing I’ve noticed by the time a relationship gets to this point. One person wants to cheat. And he wants to cheat and he wants you to cosign it to say you’re OK with it if he opens it up then you’ll do that don’t do it you’ll hate yourself and you won’t be happy. You will also hate him.
You matured someone you KNEW was only 20% likely to choose to have kids, when you knew you were the exact opposite stat of that…
What were you thinking would happen?
I’m not excellent at the maths, but if you each have a one in five chances (at best) of ever agreeing on something SO major that doesn’t sound like s recipe for success.
And here’s the thing, kids aren’t like… a house or a car which you can sell if she regrets the decision. Once she has them she’s committed – forever. She can’t take it back. She can’t walk away. You can’t try it out and change your mind if you don’t like it.
That means that if you are deciding to commit despite this one in five chances what you are agreeing to is YOU not getting what you want.
If you can’t be ok with that then you’re going to have to face that and make decisions.
If he was so drunk to the point of not being sure of what happened or realizing what was going on than yes, he was raped. He was too out of it to consent. Sure, there is the possibility that he was saying that as an excuse for cheating but you know your ex-husband better than I do. If what he did was out of character, if he never gave you the impression that chating was something he could do to you than I would lean more on sexual assault.
Well alcohol was never my problem and I’ve been clean for 7 years with no issues. My gf like to have drink before bed from time to time. It’s really nothing. I don’t drink for the record.
Sounds like you know what needs to be done. Rip it off like a bandaid. Best to get it over with quick.