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Of what?
What purpose does it serve. You know the true extent of her infidelity ok good on you but what do you get by telling her you do. It serves no purpose except to cause more conflict and you're already breaking up so who cares. Do you think she'll suddenly be repentant apologize and ask you to take her back and then you can say no and feel better about yourself. Seriously what's the point
He was looking for inspiration. I do it all the time when sending out emails to my staff or plan an important conversation. It doesn’t mean that he didn’t have these thoughts he just needed help developing them and he still chose them.
MASSIVE red flag. He wants to keep you barefoot and pregnant. A close childhood friend of mine married a man like this. She died in labor with baby #8. The baby died too. Do NOT marry this man and stop letting him fuck you raw. This is a TRAP.
Skin to skin for babies is way different than a three year old toddler. If he thinks is inappropriate, that’s his prerogative.
Isn't this a bit too vague? You didn't include ANY detail about your girlfriend. Post on r/GiftIdeas with budget and details
This sounds like something might be going on with you medically my guy
They are friends with people who cheat.
Just fix the door and don’t flush in the middle of the night.
Thank you for the info!
You say she's mentally unstable, he had every right to refuse and you should quit asking because he had made his position clear. That would cause friction with me as well.
The tests came back negative. Obviously she’s lying…. Move on, this woman is absolutely crazy. Don’t let her weak attempt at entrapment work. Let her move onto the next sucker.
This makes me feel better about my own insecurities. At least I’m not this batshit?
My thoughts are echoed throughout this thread but I want to add something about the manipulative nature of preferring to speak over text. Maybe you've never considered this before but it seems to me she prefers that method because it's easier to manipulate you there, due to her being able to word things exactly how she wants. If she just straight up refuses to talk about anything serious face to face it's because she knows she can't be as effective with her tactics there.
I doubt either as he’s always with me unless he’s at work and I also have full access to his phone and accounts and all they talk about is random stuff like normal friends.
I was in a healthy relationship with a kid who got addicted to gambling, came home one night to confess that he'd blown a big win that started from $500 he stole from my things. Good call on the credit report.
Wow, so if him cheating isn't a deal breaker, what is? Burying your head in the sand is the only way to move on. Otherwise have some respect for yourself and leave him, because he obviously has none for you.
Break up but you probably won't. If you listen to any advice her, don't ever propose/marry her.
I can see your point, but I also tell him everything because i have nothing to hide, and I just didn't have lot of love in my live!.. So I maybe seek more, but it's not because my bf isn't enough, but I see why you think what you think..
Ok we need to know the scope of this unconditional love.
Asking for a shoulder to cry on or asking you to stay with her constantly?
Yeah, everyone has their preferences.
get rid.
He's awful. Don't be confused. Let me break it down for you. In normal, healthy relationships people don't say mean things to each other..
The now 34 year old dated a 23 year old “for a few years”.
Dude. Gross. No.
It’s not okay. As evidenced by her current behaviour, he fucked her up. A 30 year old dating basically a teenager is going to have consequences on that teenager. That’s what happens.
This is gross
He would have probably slapped her across the face, let's be real.
Break up, move on with your life, and let her find whatever makes her happy on her own.
report the account, if someone mention going to the cop say ‘okay, i’ll call the cop on my end and explain it!‘ you didn’t ask for it. block and move on
Tell him that you’re putting Nair in one of your old bottle to make it easier to keep. If he uses it, it’s on him.
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Because there are almost always unintended consequences to such a big issue. It’s just my opinion. An opinion to consider.
Haha, yeah, those are definitely the only two options. The vanilla option that makes sense in your head and the other option which is a promise of hurt and failure.
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Usually when you stop having sex it’s already too late. Yes it’s true that it’s sometimes due to emotional situations or stress, but 9 times out of 10 it’s because she doesn’t want you anymore. Either she’s lost attraction or she’s gained an attraction to someone else.
LOL
Maybe he has watched too many lesbian porns. Sounds like some fetish getting transferred on his daughter? Red flag ? to me.
thats what i meant
You are not compatible anymore.
Alternatively, he prefers younger women as he has more influence / control over them.
Ya you are using her for mental and emotional support. You are nothing but a parasite. She's lucky to not marry you.
Sounds like your BF may have ADHD. I am exactly like that and I don’t mean to be so scattered but I just am. Maybe you need to find out exactly what goes on in his brain during those moments to get a better understanding of him.
Hmmm well like I said that comment from my coworker the other day was out of no where and has no legs to stand on. He knows nothing about me and my husband.
I feel like with my family we are all super close and like I said ten years of a relationship he annoys me if he’s annoying me I’ll call him out and he does the same lol.
Like when I was younger maybe I did yell at him more…but again it’s not like there’s no reason. Sometimes he can act like a child.
I have a big personality I’m the only girl out of three brothers. I truly think it’s my personality being labeled this way but my husband LOVES my personality and girl power strength.
She took advantage of you. She’s gross.
Everyone farts but most of the time you can control it and not fart in front of others. Of course there are times when that is not possible but this is excessive. Sounds like he has a serious medical issue that needs to be addressed. Does he do this at work or around his mother? Did he change his diet? Has this been the whole time you have been dating?
Not one person is ok with it, even you, you know it's abusive why are you justifying it by saying you'd have passed out???? Would that have made what he did ok???? It's abuse, plain and simple, if you choose to stay with him, you're staying with an abuser who will likely abuse you again
She desperately wants your attention and for you to know other people find her attractive.
“While I will be moving going completely NC is going to be impossible since he has been a family friend even before I was born. (His mom and my grandma were friends)” WAY TO BURY THE LEDE! How old is this guy?!
Anyone who uses the term “beta males” definitely is one.
You honestly sound like a 13 years old who’s never had a girlfriend just making up scenarios in his head that would justify strangling a woman.
Reddit is full of porn ?
This definitely wasn’t the flex you thought it was and I hope OP isn’t in any danger now.
Get divorced with your conscience free. You gave him 20 years. You don't need to give him one second more.
God I read this as “I’ve dated diabetics like this”
He sound like a bullshit excuse for a man, manchild thinks with the wrong head. And that's coming from another man.
He wants the single guy perk, so he should be single. Divorce that sad little boy, you're still young. My sister is around your age and she's getting medicine. You still have a whole future ahead of you. You dont desrve this shit. Nobody does. Your SO is one of the reason we get a bad rap.
They should break up either way.
Given the fact the home isn't hers, it's entirely paid for by her parents it makes it much more of a weird situation.
In effect she's living rent free – and charging her boyfriend “market rate” to use as her income to supplement the money her parents give her.
It's shitty at best imo.
He’s 24 and on his 2nd wife at 19. No disrespect but what was the period of time between his previous marriage ending and you guys getting together. It’s kinda sounds like he may have been in an abusive relationship and didn’t give any time to recover before jumping into another one. Even so, no excuse for his treatment of you.
You’ll know when you’re having one. Honestly I would just say “Nope” over and over again during a session until he’s exhausted and maybe gives up in frustration.
Then just say that you’re being honest and see what happens next. He does sound like he wants you to, which is a good start, be he definitely sounds like he’s trying to rush it.
I think he could come back from it if he quickly comes to his senses, takes responsibility and receives the therapy and coaching he needs to become a whole person. A mentally healthy person, even if these irrational thoughts flash in their head, does not act on them and has strategies for understanding what is the truth and what is in their best interest and in the best interests of their loved ones. This guy clearly doesn’t have these mental health skills or abilities and needs to seek help.
If it were me, when I got a chance to speak to him again, I would take his freak out at face value and respond accordingly. I would tell him I’m not interested in a partner or coparent who doesn’t want to be a partner or coparent—who might bail on us at any moment. I would say that I believed he wanted this child, but if he feels coerced into having it, I’m willing to release him from this “trap.” I would tell him I will speak to a lawyer about terminating his parental rights and about divorce. I would tell him he needs to move out immediately. Then based on his reaction, proceed from there.
Obviously this is a somewhat extreme response, and partially intended to call his bluff and force him to confront his own nonsense. But I also genuinely would not want to continue a romantic or coparenting relationship with someone who felt “trapped” by me or my child. (It’s actually one of my biggest fears that someone would stay with me longer than they want to out of a sense of obligation.) I would rather deal with my grief now so I could get my shit together in time to fully focus on my kid when they arrive.
Being in a relationship and making a baby IS voluntarily relinquishing a degree of freedom for the sake of intimacy and stability. If that feels like a trap, then you’re not ready for those wonderful, but yeah, somewhat restrictive things.
If he wants to freak out about being trapped? Open the trap. If he’s going to leave, force him to make the choice to leave now rather than later when his departure would give your kid more severe abandonment issues.
Let him be. you can’t concern yourself with something that may or may not happen in the future.
I guess this was supposed to be a clarification but isn’t much of one.
You and your wife seem to agree that you don’t want unvaccinated people interacting with your child. Your father is unvaccinated. What is the problem here?
You say “dad, me and baby mamma don’t want unvaccinated people interacting with our child. Please respect it.”
Not sure why you would keep it a secret or why would you give a different answer than the truth.
Also I love a Big Mac but if I see a filet mignon I get excited.
No
Haha I meant with hair all over the place. I always make sure it's washed and clean and she has assured me she doesn't mind. I believe her because she'll do it spontaneously sometimes, but like I said it's sad she can't see it's the same way for me
Haha I meant with hair all over the place. I always make sure it's washed and clean and she has assured me she doesn't mind. I believe her because she'll do it spontaneously sometimes, but like I said it's sad she can't see it's the same way for me
I don't really know what top tell you except that what he did was unacceptable, and if he can't find a way to get consent from you without ruining the moment, then he shouldn't try anything at all. Asking if someone wants sex from you is IMPORTANT, and he should settle for nothing less than ENTHUSIASTIC CONSENT. Not a, “no” and then you enjoying the massage you thought he was giving you because he loves you, and not just as a precursor for sex that you already said no to.
Define “small mistakes”.
Why are you browsing women on Twitter and sending them to your friends when you could just be with me?
Because it's attractive and sexual and its common for single guys to want more more more. He has done this exact thing since he got the smartphone, I would guess 8 years ago. Dating hasn't made him want to change his bachelor ways, and that's what needs to be addressed with him. He and his friends ramp each other up to keep doing it. They like it, it's hot, it's a new face/boob/butt to look at. That's what used to turn him on when he was single, and clearly still is. It's why video games have women wearing 2 square inches of body armor. Sports has random women just standing around being sexy. It's why stripclubs exist. Guys hang up swimsuit calendars and posters. Sex sells. Dating isn't as fresh and exciting as seeing random twitties everyday. I'm not saying that all relationships are boring, just that some people would rather ignore their partner and scroll through the playboy chasing the high of seeing a new body. This is a problem with him and his dating mindset, not a problem with you.
I know we can work through it.
You think YOU can work through it. He isn't changing. He did that in bed with you, that shows his priorities. You are compromising a lot just to “work through it”, instead of actually being honest with him.
He promised this would be the last time.
Classic. I wonder how many times he's going to promise that. He isn't really interested in your boundaries/feelings or he would have tried to make you feel more comfortable and secure about it. He didn't explain why he does it, just a quick “ok I'm done, end of story”. He can never prove that he isn't doing it, there's always a secret way to do it if he wants, so you are left trusting him. Can you trust him? Do you really believe that it's the last time? What about when his friends send pics to him because that will surely still happen.
Really ask yourself why this is a problem. It sounds like you don't love yourself, and are relying on his attention to give you any confidence. You want him to “just be with me” but clearly he doesn't want that. Browsing through models is attractive and fun, but it's no comparison to actually having the real thing IF he even values the real thing. He makes you uncomfortable, and unloved, yet you refuse to leave him.
If my bf looks at other women, who is gonna find me pretty?
This is a problem with him, not with you. It sounds like you only stay with him because you worry about finding somebody else. He likes the convenience and benefits of dating, but wants the freedom to be a bachelor with his other dumb friends.
To be honest, I don’t think it’s just the money or the lack of worry about making ends meet. It sounds like the girlfriend (and possibly her family as well if they share similar sentiments) is just asshole. This is a trait that can be found across socioeconomic classes.
The thing that really tipped me off to this was her straight up stealing the drinks the older ladies had paid for. That is just pure asshole behavior as opposed to lack of awareness of the plight of the middle class.