I agree with most of what you said, but she really shouldn't meet the friends without the husband. That would really be awful to her relationship. If they do it, it should be together.
The problem is you never developed your personal strength and power, which you still need to do.
You say when you don't “set boundaries” (empty buzz phrase), she does. She claim you think she might be trying to control you. No, she just is assertive and strong in her personhood.
The time to learn strength would have been when you were dealing with bullies and growing up in general.
You don't need to worry about setting boundaries with girlfriend; you need to learn courage and strength. The fact that you are even scared to voice things she doesn't like is quite sad and dysfunctional. You might need a male therapist to coach you at this point.
You sound ungrateful as fuck. I would bounce on the relationship if you tried this shit with me. Shit like that is like looking into a crystal ball and seeing the future.
I agree with most of what you said, but she really shouldn't meet the friends without the husband. That would really be awful to her relationship. If they do it, it should be together.
You handled it very maturely, take some time to heal and reflect on what you want for your future.
The problem is you never developed your personal strength and power, which you still need to do.
You say when you don't “set boundaries” (empty buzz phrase), she does. She claim you think she might be trying to control you. No, she just is assertive and strong in her personhood.
The time to learn strength would have been when you were dealing with bullies and growing up in general.
You don't need to worry about setting boundaries with girlfriend; you need to learn courage and strength. The fact that you are even scared to voice things she doesn't like is quite sad and dysfunctional. You might need a male therapist to coach you at this point.
This is fake dumb shit
I appreciate you keeping it real with me. This is what I need to hear
You sound ungrateful as fuck. I would bounce on the relationship if you tried this shit with me. Shit like that is like looking into a crystal ball and seeing the future.