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Well, the thing is, you were there. You know how he treated you and what he said. You even have written proof. You know if it happened again he would behave in the same way. You deserve better.
I do all of those things on a daily basis. I hug her atleast like 30 times a day and tell her she’s pretty, but she always says “ you never think of anything new to say, always the same sentences”
Holy cow OP, this man is throwing so many red flags it’s insane. The finances alone should be a hill to die on, but including the kids conversation reveals a fundamental incompatibility. It is crystal clear this man wants to tie you down with kids and is absolutely jonesing to get his hands on your cash.
He has little to no assets and is deigning to tell you how things should go? Dictating how you should spend YOUR MONEY!! That’s a hell to the no. Listen to your gut and how uncomfortable you are with this whole thing. Your body knows what’s up and it isn’t pretty.
Well if you don’t want to confront her just let her do what she wants while you stand on the sideline like a bone head. Not sure why you posted if you don’t plan to do anything.
But secondly, you seem like an absolutely amazing person. The fact that you’d even think to give something to her after going through something so traumatic is such a kind gesture. I think it would be lovely to give his possessions to people who knew him rather than giving them away.
Well, the thing is, you were there. You know how he treated you and what he said. You even have written proof. You know if it happened again he would behave in the same way. You deserve better.
I do all of those things on a daily basis. I hug her atleast like 30 times a day and tell her she’s pretty, but she always says “ you never think of anything new to say, always the same sentences”
Holy cow OP, this man is throwing so many red flags it’s insane. The finances alone should be a hill to die on, but including the kids conversation reveals a fundamental incompatibility. It is crystal clear this man wants to tie you down with kids and is absolutely jonesing to get his hands on your cash.
He has little to no assets and is deigning to tell you how things should go? Dictating how you should spend YOUR MONEY!! That’s a hell to the no. Listen to your gut and how uncomfortable you are with this whole thing. Your body knows what’s up and it isn’t pretty.
Well if you don’t want to confront her just let her do what she wants while you stand on the sideline like a bone head. Not sure why you posted if you don’t plan to do anything.
Sounds like a real treat.
You can't help someone who doesn't want to help themselves.
You have to be honest and straightforward with him. If he wants to get mad, then he will get mad. You have to stand your ground and talk it all out.
There is nothing more you can do here.
First of all, I am so sorry for your loss OP.
But secondly, you seem like an absolutely amazing person. The fact that you’d even think to give something to her after going through something so traumatic is such a kind gesture. I think it would be lovely to give his possessions to people who knew him rather than giving them away.