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Date: November 25, 2022
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I wish I didn't have to, but I am ready. And yeah, my grandpa has been very loving, a bit grumpy, but never mad at me for my choices. He was very helpful in my childhood too, that's why I want to see him. He loves them too, mostly because of my sisters.
Did you go to the same school as OP? He’s been an adult for three years that’s enough time to meet, get married and have a kid
I think you need to find someone more like you who works from home or is in your class and isn’t doing a physical job outside. Obviously you aren’t compatible and this should be an indicator for you to leave him. He is going to cook anything.
What you’ve said about him being sweet, liking each other and sharing the same interests and hobbies is all very nice but you’ve also stated you’re still at the get-to-know-each-other phase. Which means there’s a good chance you’ll run into obstacles on a longer term. If I have to think about simple obstacles, just off the top of my head, I’d say imagine living together and watching TV. Reading the newspaper. Having a conversation about anything happening in the world (and we all know there are millions of things that affect people and involves politics).. And it’s just an average day. Going out with his friends (who likely share the same beliefs as him).
No, politics is not everything. But politics are more than just a bunch of people governing countries. Those are people trusted by other people to be representing our very personal values and making decisions that are potentially life altering, on a daily basis. Hell, many of them actually want to (and do) control women’s rights over giving birth. That’s actually politics actively affecting millions of people around the world.
Having an opinion is healthy, having a different opinion on some things is also healthy. What isn’t healthy is staying with someone that believes in people that don’t represent your values. That simply means you two don’t share the same values.
She explicitly did not reference the deposit or down payment. She only mentions bills and mortgage. I asked “what about the deposit?” that's not an assumption, that's a question. “paying towards a mortgage is just called rent” isn't an assumption either, it's a clarifying statement.
If she's not contributing half the deposit as well as half the bills, half the mortgage and half the risk, then paying bills and mortgage alone just make her a tenant. People equate paying off the mortgage to being the same as home ownership but that's just not true. If she is willing to pay half the deposit, cool, she needs to say that in the original post. And willingness to pay it also doesn't mean she is entitled to be on the deeds. Her partner can still say “i don't want that” and ask for just half the bills and mortgage as a form of rent payment, and there's nothing wrong with that.
What do you mean when you say “on the contract”? If she's on the mortgage, she's not obligated to pay half the deposit as well. Are you a home owner? It sure doesn't sound like it
From personal experience, the person who always thinks they’re winning on the “logical level” actually just exhausted the other person so much they gave in to end the conversation.
Say in the future you have a daughter at the age of 18, she wants to see/Date a man at 26. Would you be okay with that?