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amazing squirting [Multi Goal]
Date: November 12, 2022
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amazing squirting [Multi Goal]
There comes a point in a serious relationship where you should both be wanting to do holidays etc with each other and not seperatly, unless it is agreed in the relationship that you can both be swanning off on holidays (to probably act single and get wasted) than as far as i'm concerned that is not acceptable in a compatitble relationahip. If i'm honest I would cut her off and just end it with her, she is choosing her friends over you, which to a degree is fair enough, if they are life long friends, and choosing a man and relationship over friends now is so 1950's apparently ( probably why young people cant hold a decent relarionship these days) than just find someone aho suits you more, who wants the same goals in life and would choose snuggling up on the sofa over a piss up with the girls. Her lack of respect for you is also a big worry as behind your back she is probably a lot worse than she is making out, they always are tbh. You have been respectful and understanding with her decisions of having lots of trips without you, but that was never going to work long term. Give her the choice, she chooses the relarionship or she chooses the trips, sorrry if that sounds “controlling” but it will give you the answers you need to where her head is at with the relationship. I am old school and had grown out of partying and lads holidays by my late 20s, I have 2 kids and am married and my wife funnily enough had to choose either the party life or family life, and I never pressured her, but did ask her to make a decision on the chooses she was making while in a long term relationship (this was before we got married in 2018) she made her choice and never looked back, she is younger than me but quickly grew out of the “drinking” “partys” and “girl holidays”, but I could never force her to make the decision, she had to choose it herself, but of course she undetstood that one could mean ending our relationship, so the ball was in her court. I had dedicated my whole self to her and now expected the same recipicated. Is that asking too much from a potential life long partner? No I dont think so. Have a talk with her quietly, respectfully but seriously and tell her where your head is at, but at the same time, dont let yourself be taken advantage off so she can “pursue her dreams and desires” she can be single if she wants to pursue those things.
That doesn't sound logical to me. She will meet someone new either way, only difference ist weather I still have contact. And I genuinely want friendship because there are also pros to it compared to relationship.
Internet is not real but your wife is. Delete your social media accounts and spend more time with your wife. That is my advice. Internet is evil and ruins so many lives.
You can’t fuck friends read definitions
Wow. Please never talk to anyone IRL every again. Yikes. This is some next level crazy if you think crying when someone is feeling emotion is immature.
Like bro all your comments make you sound like an emotionally abusive partner or a cold hearted douchbag robot. Rethink this whole position. You don’t sound mature you sound unhinged.
First, I do think it's a bit much that you both need “updates” when you two are out having fun. That alone already tells me that you both have trust issues if you two feel the need to have to update one another when you're out. It could be because you two are young, but I can tell you right now as you get older and date, people hate that. It's controlling for one and as I said its trust issues. If anyone I date is asking updates when I'm out with friends, I would shut that down right away. You're not parole officers, you're dating.
With that being said, I do feel it could be a few things. The first, yes there may be some funny business going on because if I'm dating someone and they call, I don't purposely ignore their calls. I can understand texts but phone calls that is blatantly obvious. But, like I stated above, if someone is trying to check up on me when I'm out, I could see myself purposely ignoring it until my night is over.
Overall man, you two need to learn to either trust one another when you two are out or you two are setting yourselves up for a major blowout one night
Just get a new boyfriend
Don't, just respect people's wishes. Because maybe to him you refusing to let the idea of paying him back may come off as you refusing to accept the separation.
Here's a better idea, put 2000$ in a savings account for yourself so if he ever asked for his money back in the next year or whatever you have them ready, otherwise nothing will have happened and you'll get over it.
I know lol.
I think this is a conversation to be had with your girlfriend, but to be fair, she said this would be fun after you asked her thoughts on it based on a show you were watching together, not after her stating outright that she wanted to have an open relationship.
I think you should make your feelings clear that you wouldn’t like an open relationship and see if she’s comfortable with maintaining a monogamous relationship. If she is, then you have nothing to worry about. I’m a bisexual woman in a monogamous relationship and while open relationships seem like they could be fun, it’s not something me or my partner would ever realistically want. And that’s something you need to confirm is the same with your girlfriend.
I wouldn’t worry yourself too much if this was the only mention of an open relationship from her, when prompted while watching a show.
Wishing the best for you OP but I’m sure everything will be fine after you talk to her about this.
I wouldn't say the marriage is unsalvageable. You guys should go to couples therapy or marriage counselling. I think there's a lot to unpack here.
You don't even know what cheating means.
Here's the thing- cheating isn't what I say it is, it's whatever you and her both agree it is.
For one couple, talking to an ex might be cheating. For another couple, talking with anyone and flirting might be fine as long as there's no emotion/sex. For another couple, sex with randoms may be fine as long as there's no emotional attachment. For another couple, falling in love with others may be fine as long as there's no sex. For another couple, falling in love and having sex with others may be fine as long as THIS partner is the primary one. etc etc.
Speaking for myself- one of my closest friends is an ex-partner. I care about that person very much, I'd say I love them as a friend. But I am 100% over them and they are over me. Nonetheless, keeping contact with them is a must for me and if a prospective partner tried to say otherwise I would say we are not right for each other then because my ex partner will always be a part of my life. Fortunately I'm with someone who is also good friends with an ex-partner, so it works out.
I don't subscribe to the belief that when you break up you have to surgically remove the person from your life like a cancer and block them everywhere. I think emotionally mature people can recognize that a relationship must end, but still care about each other and still want to be in each others' lives, despite having no interest in continuing the relationship.
In the end though you must do what you feel is right. Personally I'd suggest maybe ask to see some of the messages between them, or make an agreement that if she is going to hang out with him in person you will be there. Give her a chance.
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Great that you’ve got it sorted! And fwiw you 100% did the right thing cutting off that friendship, she was sexually harassing you and it’s not ok
Why did you tell him you forgive him when you so obviously haven’t?
At the moment, there’s nothing to be done. He lied to you & he extended his work trip with another woman. It doesn’t look good, but you’ll have to see what he says when he gets back.
This is true, and I can certainly vouch for wanting things to go back to normal after a sexual violation and pretend things never happened. But she does seem very calm about a friend stealing these private images, and he was very quick to admit fault rather than try to blame her or deflect (which would be the first response I would expect from someone who stole risque photos).
This woman will continue to make you more and more miserable. You deserve better. Please leave asap. Oh. And idk if this is petty, but because you aren't getting married, you're entitled to the ring back.
yeah man it's very valid and normal to not want to see rape in your tv show. it isn't valid or normal to make sweeping judgements about the people who make or consume that tv show because it has rape in it. i feel like ive been pretty clear about this!
“i don't want to see rape depicted” is very fair and normal! my best friend has this exact opinion and i do not recommend media which contains rape in it to them. but the person im responding to believes (or seems to) that “rape should not be depicted”, which is a different beast entirely, and paints people coping with their trauma by making art about it as exactly the same as someone getting off to it. that's the issue. when we get all up in arms about “problematic” art, we're doing much more damage to small artists and especially queer artists than we realize.
She already knows how I am with loud music and the reason for it so maybe in some way shes showing less concern for me? Tho mainly, it just messes with ears a bit too much
Well, my mom freaks out at me and starts crying. She says I'm being disrespectful
My mother and father has since then said I am being disrespectful and going against their wishes.
I love how some people refer to “failing to obey my every command” as “disrespectful”.
Lack of groveling deference is not “disrespect”.
Not your job to raise this baby. Send him back to mama.
Hes literally two years out of HS. What did you expect
I agree with all of this. The crazy thing is nothing was even bad about his job, he just wanted to do “better” for himself. No one mistreated him there and he rarely complained about anything. I have no idea why he said that shit to his coworkers.
Ok honestly, I don’t really think she’s a great friend to begin with. She definitely should’ve told you to begin with and it’s not a friend move to go on a date with him behind your back like that
Here’s a lesson: in the future, don’t have your girlfriend send your girl friends gifts. Full stop.
I just didn't feel like explaining purpose to someone who doesn't see value in it and instead says it was “half ass”.
Working on it- I'll let you know when I reach your intellect.
Glad you’re taking care of him. You’re very much doing the right thing here.