I don't blame you it's very important. Unfortunately I don't think he will see this, and will only continue to want you to cut off all friendships or even want you to stop contacting loved ones. Go on your trip. If he's not okay with it find someone who is okay with you experiencing life and spending time with other people you care about.
What’s missing from your post is how you feel about all this. Do you like her? Do you like her husband? Do you want to escalate your contact with them? I think the answers to those questions are very pertinent.
The situation is unusual. You might not be cheating, but it’s approaching an emotional affair. If you have feelings for her, even more so.
Her husband is either oblivious, tolerant, or secretly looking for it to happen. Who knows. You aren’t a mind reader. If you really want to open Pandora’s box, you’re gonna have to communicate.
It is a sign that he is super immature or such a narcissistic creep that no one his own age will date him.
Or it's easier to find a teenager (apparently started dating at 18) that will ignore his abusive actions than someone in their 30s that will ignore it.
Y'all think I love him cause he's very hot and it's not true we have been friend since we were 10, we never started this until we started dating tbh we've always had a bond, and no I think he can change his racist ways
To answer this question of yours specifically… because that is who he is as a person. He doesn't take “no” as an answer. He badgers and badgers until he gets his way. You are STILL his f-buddy, so, why stop if he could actually wear you down and get it?
Want it to stop? Cut him off and cut him out. Let him go badger some other f-buddy for it if you don't wish to oblige his fantasy.
Yeah, you are right. I did love the girl and never thought of this. And disrespecting her like that was something I didn’t like. I just can’t say anything to her apart from just not trusting her with my phone again. She clearly was very happy seeing me and it happened.
Your boyfriend sounds like an asshole. He clearly doesn't respect you or your opinion because he is too worried about being right and proving it. He escalated a verbal disagreement by challenging you to a show of strength in which he fully intended to overpower you to make his point (and make you admit he was correct). When you refused to back down and showed him he was wrong, he resorted to manipulating the situation to make it seem like you've done him some eggregious harm.
You didn't hurt him, nor did you intend to. Don't let his crocodile tears draw you back in.
rough situation, the goal in a relationship is to build a future together, have similar goals regarding the relationship, clearly right now he’s lost and you are not. Love is not enough to keep a relationship together. I think that pushing a person to keep up with your speed is tiring, I personally would break up. But if you feel like this relationship can go further don’t. I just don’t have time to waist on people that don’t have aspirations.
Maybe he doesn’t want to do it because he sees receiving a phallic member up his anus to be an act reminiscent of the sex that homosexuals engage in
Huge, huge mistake.
How can you rely on someone who doesn't want to work?
I don't blame you it's very important. Unfortunately I don't think he will see this, and will only continue to want you to cut off all friendships or even want you to stop contacting loved ones. Go on your trip. If he's not okay with it find someone who is okay with you experiencing life and spending time with other people you care about.
Run
What’s missing from your post is how you feel about all this. Do you like her? Do you like her husband? Do you want to escalate your contact with them? I think the answers to those questions are very pertinent.
The situation is unusual. You might not be cheating, but it’s approaching an emotional affair. If you have feelings for her, even more so.
Her husband is either oblivious, tolerant, or secretly looking for it to happen. Who knows. You aren’t a mind reader. If you really want to open Pandora’s box, you’re gonna have to communicate.
It is a sign that he is super immature or such a narcissistic creep that no one his own age will date him.
Or it's easier to find a teenager (apparently started dating at 18) that will ignore his abusive actions than someone in their 30s that will ignore it.
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Lying about going to another guys place – whether she got dicked down or not (she did), it doesn’t matter. Without trust it’s OVER.
No. It would be like saying “women tend to write in cursive”. It is not better or worse (than printing) it is just different stylistically.
The only questionable part is whether it is accurate. I have not seen enough people doing them to say if it is.
Y'all think I love him cause he's very hot and it's not true we have been friend since we were 10, we never started this until we started dating tbh we've always had a bond, and no I think he can change his racist ways
Well congrats on the upcoming breakup. Sorry man.
Why wont he take no for an anwer?
To answer this question of yours specifically… because that is who he is as a person. He doesn't take “no” as an answer. He badgers and badgers until he gets his way. You are STILL his f-buddy, so, why stop if he could actually wear you down and get it?
Want it to stop? Cut him off and cut him out. Let him go badger some other f-buddy for it if you don't wish to oblige his fantasy.
You need to get the dog and later the baby out of her primary care.
Why are you helping them cover it up?
I think he handled it wrong, I think her dad is an ass, and I deff think she is a bitch.
And then when they break up the friend has a story to tell…
Current boyfriend possibly projecting? Super insecrue because maybe he feels guilty ablut something…
Then again maybe not and hes just a loyal psycho.
Yeah, you are right. I did love the girl and never thought of this. And disrespecting her like that was something I didn’t like. I just can’t say anything to her apart from just not trusting her with my phone again. She clearly was very happy seeing me and it happened.
We’re not talking about her directly. Just saying that not ALL disabled people should automatically think it’s a bad idea to have kids.
End the relationship.
Your boyfriend sounds like an asshole. He clearly doesn't respect you or your opinion because he is too worried about being right and proving it. He escalated a verbal disagreement by challenging you to a show of strength in which he fully intended to overpower you to make his point (and make you admit he was correct). When you refused to back down and showed him he was wrong, he resorted to manipulating the situation to make it seem like you've done him some eggregious harm.
You didn't hurt him, nor did you intend to. Don't let his crocodile tears draw you back in.
Find someone who understand you better.
rough situation, the goal in a relationship is to build a future together, have similar goals regarding the relationship, clearly right now he’s lost and you are not. Love is not enough to keep a relationship together. I think that pushing a person to keep up with your speed is tiring, I personally would break up. But if you feel like this relationship can go further don’t. I just don’t have time to waist on people that don’t have aspirations.
You're done here, good luck.
Great Suggestion!! ??
cat > man
You aren't sexually compatible.
One of you can adjust your expectations- that probably won't be fun.
Or you can be miserable for as long as you're together.
Read your post history and think about what you say if this was a friend posting it
You would tell her that she is worth so much more and needs to get out of this one sided relationship
Hoping you can break up with him because you deserve better
Is English a second language for you my guy? You keep typing out sentences but they make zero sense.
Thank you so much for the well wishes.