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Date: October 25, 2022
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For sure. I’m in therapy now and I was told by my therapist that the first step in conflict resolution is letting go of ego and understanding how the other person feels
Why? He doesn't seem to share your interests.
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This is just life, and it's what happens when people get partners.
As if I can’t see what she’s doing? She’s trying to stop our Christmas tradition and have me become her permanent awkward guest at her bf’s family dinner. After all why does she need 2 Christmas celebrations when she already has one?
This part is very enlightening. You're assuming she's doing this to push you away and not that she wants to be closer to her BF and his family.
Do you not have any family you could visit, or any romantic partners of your own? To me it sounds like you're lonely.
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she has no desire for long term plans with me.
It's time to accept reality on reality's terms.
It's up to you how long you prefer to waste away in misery limbo. Might as well rip the band-aid off and talk to an attorney. Some guidance will probably feel as if someone is supporting you, which you need.
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You wait. Not just to see how it looks when the swelling goes down but to give yourself time to get used to it. It looks different to what you are used to, therefore your brain is screaming that something is wrong when you look at her, it’s not that it looks bad per say, just that it’s different and your not used to it. You didn’t fall in love with her because of her nose and your not breaking up with her because of it either. Would you dump her if she broke her nose and it looked crooked or had a bump? If the answer is yes then leave her now because you don’t love her and she deserves better. If the answer is no then give it time, you will get used to it, a couple of weeks is not enough time, especially if she has only just taken off bandages, your not getting used to a change like this in a few days. But in a year or two you will find the fact you were this dramatic funny, because if you love her, her nose shouldn’t change that.
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I dont think you can come back from that, especially since he was using you to babysit. How would you be able to trust him again? Sorry this happened, but I think you need to move on.
16 and 24? jesus..
I wasted a LOT of my younger years, when I was in the Army, drunk. I'd love to go back and reclaim all that time.
OP, I think there's a chance to have a rational conversation with him before making any tough decisions. Talk about your concerns and see why he structured things this way. Ask why he is foregoing some of the classic elements of a prenup, and if he realizes that by doing so this becomes a pretty one sided agreement. Ask if he'd be willing to sign such an agreement in your position.
Ultimately he needs to view you as partners, and while prenups can protect assets from before the marriage this is suggesting he has pretty inflexible views on how you will have access to money within the marriage itself.
As a last resort say you will provide him with a prenup structure from your attorney to use as a starting point because his document is not fair to you or your career.
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Lol you, called it right out there. Saying what Chinese has to do with anything and all.
any tips on what i should do?
You get over it and move on. She was single when it happened. God forbid single people having a few kisses while drunk, she'll have a past just like everyone else.
I don't need to read the post to tell you no. You're 20 and there are millions of other girls that won't need second chances. Move on.
Are you aware that
1/4 OF YOUR ENTIRE RELATIONSHIP
has been spent pining for someone else? How is that fair to her?
It is not that old situation, it went sideways in early November. Earlier it was just a normal two people spending time together doing things.
In an ideal world maybe, but the world is not ideal. In my opinion it’s good enough if the partner takes an interest in and supports what you like. It doesn’t necessarily have to be their “passion” as well. Maybe they discover later on that they like what you like? Conversely they need to have some interests of their own also, which you can try to partake in and learn something new about. You just need to be flexible! If you’re looking for someone who shares all your passions from the get go and clicks all the other boxes for you as well, you will have a very hard time.
This is called financial abuse. Wtf did he spend 30k on?
Yes, gtfo. Get a lawyer. Fucking sue him if need be.
If he has the same mindset as you, talks badly about her, or says things like, “she should have respected herself,” then, no, he didn't treat her with respect.
If she wanted to be exclusive and he did not, that's fine, and it happens.
My question is why do you seem to have such a negative view of her for simply dating him and having feelings for him? From my point of view, it sounds like you are trying to put her down to make yourself feel better. That's not cool.
Enjoy your relationship and let her be. Stop with the childish behavior.
If he has the same mindset as you, talks badly about her, or says things like, “she should have respected herself,” then, no, he didn't treat her with respect.
If she wanted to be exclusive and he did not, that's fine, and it happens.
My question is why do you seem to have such a negative view of her for simply dating him and having feelings for him? From my point of view, it sounds like you are trying to put her down to make yourself feel better. That's not cool.
Enjoy your relationship and let her be. Stop with the childish behavior.
Yea, your gf and her buddy are creeps.
He's not even her partner. That's what really makes this ridiculous.
He complains about how bored he was all day, that he hates living here,
I’ve been applying for jobs for him, arranging everything for moving out from our last place, and my mom is housing and feeding us.
I'm sure your mother must really enjoy having him as a house guest and watching him treat you so unkindly, sitting on his ass all day, not working and then coming to the kitchen table and expecting to be fed. She's kinder than I am. At a minimum, he should be actively job-seeking.
I would suggest that you buy him a ticket back to his parents. He's bored here? Fine. Go home. Eat off someone else's dime.
Well don't do that to anyone else because they might not be as charitable and actually might find it to be predatory and terrifying, and they wouldn't be incorrect. Why even bother posting here.
How is it hat projecting exactly?