If you've agreed that free porn is fine, is it the money that bothers you? Or are you concerned he's developing a relationship with them? Because paying for porn feels like the more ethical choice, but cheating would be a problem.
Ok, my husband and I have separated for six months, but I know where he lives. I've only been once in the studio, and that was after 5 months of building trust.
It's his space, so I respect it, but I do know where it is. Unless his safety is threatened by you and you're leaving something out, you should know we're your kid is.
Dude what? If you want to salvage this, sit her down while she's not playing the game and discuss some actual boundaries with her. Ask all the questions you need, like if she's getting off on this stuff or what. Decide beforehand what you consider to be a deal breaker. Tbh this would be hot to wrap my head around personally. If you're not too invested I'd say just dip
It sounds like you are a hypocrite. You girlfriend is right to be upset with you. You crossed your own boundary and know the hurt it can cause.
If you've agreed that free porn is fine, is it the money that bothers you? Or are you concerned he's developing a relationship with them? Because paying for porn feels like the more ethical choice, but cheating would be a problem.
Ok, my husband and I have separated for six months, but I know where he lives. I've only been once in the studio, and that was after 5 months of building trust.
It's his space, so I respect it, but I do know where it is. Unless his safety is threatened by you and you're leaving something out, you should know we're your kid is.
It's not just “two toys” is it?
Also by saying it's just “two toys” she's also lowering her views of OP. So he's just a toy for her nothing more.
Send a photograph of your scar with the words ” never contact me again”.
Dude what? If you want to salvage this, sit her down while she's not playing the game and discuss some actual boundaries with her. Ask all the questions you need, like if she's getting off on this stuff or what. Decide beforehand what you consider to be a deal breaker. Tbh this would be hot to wrap my head around personally. If you're not too invested I'd say just dip