Thanks, this is very clear and I see how my comments make this about me.
In response, I guess I want accolades and attention for being romantic because she expects and asks that of me, often, and has expressed wanting me to do that more for her. That is why I'm so disappointed in this evening.
You’re both far too young to be tied down. You both need to focus on building your futures and experiencing life. Go focus on your education and create a good future for yourself. Forget the girlfriend. This is as much for her as it is for you. She’s needs to be given the opportunity to achieve her goals and she won’t be able to do that if she’s “attached” to someone who has other priorities. You’ve got to be cruel to be kind ?
You should have ended it as soon as she started smoking (or sooner)
You had firm boundaries, but you let her cross them because you liked her, and then she did stepped too far and got herself too drunk or too high and then you reacted badly.
Do yourself a favor for some piece of mind. Read up what the test sees. Get a better understanding of past genetics and movements of groups of people in history
Correct, but only if the both parties have an iPhone. iMessage uses data for iPhone to iPhone texting but switches to SMS if the messages are to/from an Android device.
Thank you, now that you really put that into words I realize it is super manipulative. For some reason in my mind it comes off as him being so hurt from the breakup that he wouldn’t be able to handle it, but if he really felt that way he would be putting in the work now. I always think how could someone be manipulated into staying in an awful relationship, but now I can see that’s exactly where I am and think I’ve just been blinded by my own situation. I really appreciate your input
You got played which serves both of you and your male friend right for being fking misogynists.
Thanks, this is very clear and I see how my comments make this about me.
In response, I guess I want accolades and attention for being romantic because she expects and asks that of me, often, and has expressed wanting me to do that more for her. That is why I'm so disappointed in this evening.
You’re being a bitch
You’re both far too young to be tied down. You both need to focus on building your futures and experiencing life. Go focus on your education and create a good future for yourself. Forget the girlfriend. This is as much for her as it is for you. She’s needs to be given the opportunity to achieve her goals and she won’t be able to do that if she’s “attached” to someone who has other priorities. You’ve got to be cruel to be kind ?
GET HER OUT OF YOUR LIFE!
She is toxic, she loves drama, she is emotionally manipulative. You do not want this.
She’s left you.
You should have ended it as soon as she started smoking (or sooner)
You had firm boundaries, but you let her cross them because you liked her, and then she did stepped too far and got herself too drunk or too high and then you reacted badly.
Do yourself a favor for some piece of mind. Read up what the test sees. Get a better understanding of past genetics and movements of groups of people in history
Maybe half of marriages you’ve been part of.
Correct, but only if the both parties have an iPhone. iMessage uses data for iPhone to iPhone texting but switches to SMS if the messages are to/from an Android device.
Thank you, now that you really put that into words I realize it is super manipulative. For some reason in my mind it comes off as him being so hurt from the breakup that he wouldn’t be able to handle it, but if he really felt that way he would be putting in the work now. I always think how could someone be manipulated into staying in an awful relationship, but now I can see that’s exactly where I am and think I’ve just been blinded by my own situation. I really appreciate your input