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Date: October 24, 2022
Why do you people stay in these relationships where either partner isnt committed to the relationship? They hide stuff, cheat, dont care, dont brush their teeth, dont shower, dont wipe their asses, dont wanna have sex, etc. If hes got all that stuff and prefers to wank instead if having sex and isnt respecting you, simply break up with him and move on
When you were 4 he was 18. Regardless of your age now, you are still a child to him.
When you were 14 he was 28. Y’all are light years apart lol
Nothing wrong with fantasies and day dreaming.
Tiktok? You are judging your worth based on TIKTOK? Tiktok is a dumpsterfire of an app where you can swing from a user who thinks eating food is a red flag for narcissism to a user who thinks ancient rome doesn't exist. Delete it, never go on it, and for the love of all things that are holy NEVER take advice from it. (For that matter, delete instagram and twitter if you're on there too. The former just gives you unrealistic expectations about everything and the latter is more toxic than the chernobyl elephant's foot)
Look, you want advice from an overweight socially-awkward loser who somehow does have friends and a loving husband? First, learn to cook. Sharing food with people is a language of universal love. Friends, family, romantic interests, everyone can appreciate someone who makes them a meal made with love.
Second, find some kind of nerd club to join. I made most of my friends at a LARP group. A tabletop group, book club, fandom group would work too. If you want to make friends as someone socially awkward, you need to find an equally socially awkward group of people who can empathise and understand you.
Third, STOP with the self depreciation around people. Keep it in your head. You don't have to “come out” as friendless, you just don't mention it! If you're ashamed, treat it like an embarassing medical condition-just don't talk about it, hand wave it, and if people press you on the matter, tell them they're being intrusive and politely ask them not to. It is very easy to handwave not having many friends. Hell, if you join a new group, just tell them you're turning over a new leaf and looking for a fresh start. That is ESPECIALLY understandable post-covid. A LOT of people lost all their friends during the pandemic. A LOT of people are looking for new friends.
When around people, apply the “if you can't say anything nice, don't say anything at all” rule to yourself. Being self-hating makes people feel awkward and uncomfortable. Just be nice. Be nice to everyone, including yourself. Bake muffins and hand them out to people. Invite people over to watch movies. Listen to people and take interest in the things they like.
I know it feels like scaling a mountain. But it gets easier with time. You just need to unchain yourself from the boulder of self hatred. And yeah, that's naked too. But you can do it.
People aren't as mean as you think they are. There are a lot of socially awkward, friendless, sad and lonely people out there. Everyone is human. Just open yourself up enough to trust people to accept you. Find people like you.
This is an interesting glimpse of how he could possibly parent.
Someone who projects their insecurities and piles all of the work on to you when frustrated may not be the person you want to be stuck in the trenches of newborn life with.
Ask her.
I just can’t believe he grabbed my neck like that. I’m literally in shock
Time to end the friendship.
I think the main thing to consider going forward is whether you can trust your gf moving forward. She was not truthful with you about this sexual encounter, and it's possible that she may have lied about other things as well. You'll need to decide if you're willing to work on rebuilding trust in the relationship or if this is a dealbreaker for you.
If I were you, I would end it.
Yes, she didn’t technically cheat on you, but in my opinion, when talking about committed relationships, who cares about technicalities? You two just have very different outlooks on relationships.
If I were in your position, I would think that she’s just sleeping around, playing the field (which is her right), until she decides, “hey, this guy will do” and decides to commit to you. If she had strong feelings for you, she wouldn’t be sleeping with other guys, like you weren’t sleeping with other girls because you had feelings for her.
You made the right decision to not pressuring her into exclusivity when she was very noncommittal. You want her to want to be in a relationship with you, not just give in to your desire to be in a relationship with her.
Combine all this with the fact that this other guy is still going to be hanging around her and she refuses to set any kind of boundaries would be the nail in the coffin for me. She can say she understands your feelings, but honestly, talk is cheap.
Leave her and take this as a learning experience to let girls know early on how you operate. If they’re not willing to show their commitment leading up to a potential relationship, then a relationship with them isn’t worth it.
That so called friend of yours is a predator. Get away from him.
Nothing really?
I do get that feeling too sometimes. Or women with unhappy relationships tear down other women’s relationships often.
When I met my current boyfriend I also noticed that some girls around me just tried really hot to find something negative about him. That’s why often us women hesitate talk about relationship issues because often other women then scream „LEAVE HIM SIS HE AINT WORTHT IT“ at any minor inconvenience. Also we’re so quick to call relationships toxic nowadays.
Why are you making this difficult. You guys got engaged at 8 months and you’re not compatible just move on
*minutes, apologies that was stupid autocorrect and now I can’t edit the post again
Is this something your wife would do? It sounds like a lot of effort. Have you had a conversation with her about it?
He raped you. You need to get to safety and away from him as soon as possible.
dump him and go into therapy instead. You're not happy. You know deep down inside that he doesnt treat you well and is distorting your view of whats real and whats not. Staying with him and trying to bend to him will further damage you. If your bff's partner treated them the way he treats you, what would you tell her?
Weekends every once in awhile. Some times together and sometimes apart. Every month?! It's unrealistic. I have active grandparents who also have lives. The only reason I get kid free time once a month is because my kids go to their dad's house. But that changes in June when our little girl is born. To go into a relationship with a single parent and expect to get a weekend off alone every month is silly and unrealistic and not normal in MOST relationships. You got lucky you can do it more often
Then you're not excited to be a father. This entire comment is 'me, me, me' and 'I, I, I.' It's not about you, it's not about her. It is about that child. And child support? Are you fucking kidding me? That shit usually doesn't even cover half the cost of raising a kid, usually, because it's calculated based on your income. 'When you find a lady'…dude, you should be worrying about how that woman treats your child, not what you can or can't give to her when she's still just a hypothetic. And 'how much should I continue giving baby momma?' Are you fucking kidding me? You realize that a child is, at the very least, an 18-year commitment, right? You 'continue' paying what you are supposed to whether you want to start another family or not. You are already sounding like one of those parents we see being posted about all the time on here; the one the 'mistake' goes no contact with because they moved on with their new family and left the kid behind.
That depends on where you live. The laws are different everywhere.
They have been helping me with bills as I just graduated college. I did recently get a full time job so hopefully I can be independent in a few months. I do plan on moving cross country in a few months as well.
His job can pull him at any point for any reason. I’m not comfortable revealing what he does but I have witnessed him receive calls where he’s had to drop everything and race to work. I respect that, but it’s not consistently every day. It’s maybe twice a week & his job is aware he has a family. I don’t understand why he couldn’t just drop them with me on his way in if he gets called in. But I know they are worried about if I’m busy or he doesn’t have time…
stop spamming this identical topic
This is what I keep coming back to. I can’t imagine how her husband would feel — after being furious with OP’s mother for the bullishit she spewed, and assuring OP that any issues with fertility would not result in the end of their marriage — only to have OP continue to sit here like “huh guess I have to have an open marriage, that sucks.”
THAT is something that will end your marriage, OP. Pay attention. You are completely disregarding your husband here.
Your dad probably wants the best for you
Our daughter was conceived while I had an IUD in. I know a couple who conceived after a vasectomy. So, no. Continue to use condoms until you're ok with the risk of an unexpected pregnancy.
Well if he did, he probably wanted to for a really long time, and just never did. So if he did, don’t blame yourself, he probably had a bunch of reasons, and I bet you were last on that list. Don’t be upset, he is at peace, a peace he probably begged for for a really long time
So she went to the hospital
If they found drugs MAYBE stay , if not RUN!
What you're experiencing isn't uncommon. A lot of people experience grief and nostalgia as the onion layers of our lives peel away. I think one thing we don't think about is the many layers of relationships — we might grieve the obvious layers first, and then get hit by the more timeless ones later. For six years, she was your girlfriend, your friend, your life partner, someone who dreamed with you, and you dreamed with them. It sounds like you're grieving the life partner now that you're remembering what that was like and how important it was to you.
Update please