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Date: October 4, 2022
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The post got deleted but from the comments I read, her bf SEXUALLY ASSAULTED somebody??? That's the “sort of messed up thing” that he did??? What the actual hell?
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You dodged a bullet, he seems like trash. Just walk away. Contacting her would only make you feel worse in the end and not actually benefit you in anyway.
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I would imagine the timing didn’t help. He’s probably tired having to deal with your jealousy despite knowing he wasn’t doing anything wrong.
Now it’s 4am, he’s probably tired, just thinking of going to sleep, and boom, jealous girlfriend wants to extend the night with a fight about nothing.
Real talk, your ex boyfriend is a douche. Plenty of faithful “high value” men and women are out there. He's not 100% wrong though. The only thing that he's 'more right' about than you is that there ARE differences in how men and women prioritize and think about sex. This can be seen anecdotally by looking at the gay man sexual marketplace vs the lesbian sexual marketplace. I think apps like Grindr and gay clubs are places where you can see pure male sexual id unleashed. I've been a handful of gay and lesbian clubs and the difference is night and oranges.
If I had to guess, I'd say that it's probable more men feel sexual urges to cheat than women because it seems like attraction works differently for us. That said, being able to control your urges and not throw away a life you've built with a partner for some strange isn't THAT difficult. Especially as you get older. I realized long ago that “you can't fuck em all” and at a certain point the allure of sleeping with a new woman doesn't hold a candle to being in a committed relationship with an amazing woman.
Your husband is accusing you of cheating. He basically has no trust in you. It's time to tell him if he doesn't trust you, he should not be married to you.
She lives with your bf. You just stay there a lot.
And yes, you absolutely do mind helping her.
Stop being so resentful of your bf’s generosity. He doesn’t care how long she stays. Why do you?
This is just not any of your business.
If ringing in your birthday at midnight is a thing, you have to inform the person you’ve been with for less than a year. At 27, a lot of people are looking to have a drink and a meal for their birthday, so I can see why he might not block out 24 hours for a new relationship without any specific request. If being with someone was so important why didn’t you go to the event? He’s not straight out of high school. If he’s a catch, this kind of thing will get old quickly.
You are in an abusive relationship. It really doesn't matter why she scratches, pinches, bites, and hits you in sensitive areas. It is very strange behavior and you need to stop seeing her.
If you find yourself unable to break up with her please see a therapist. You deserve someone that loves you and the more time you waste on this one, the longer it will take you to find someone else.
Hey, glad to help. Hope everything works out for you guys
Yes.
Jesus christ
This is pretty weird, and definitely a red flag, but I'm curious about the fact that you've been together for 4 years and this hasn't happened before. What's different? Is it that you're engaged? Could it be that he doesn't like being touched and interrupted when he has asked not to be, and being engaged makes him more sensitive to that, because he feels like he's locking into the relationship for the long-term? That doesn't justify a violent response in any way, but if I were you, I would want to be certain that he's willing to discuss issues like this before you get married. If his only reaction is to deny that it even happened, that's not good. He needs to be willing to have a discussion about his inappropriate reaction
It’s odd he knows your friend used to have a crush on you. Did you tell him how your friend felt? If you did, that’s a reason for your boyfriend to not tell you how he feels. Maybe he thinks you’ll tell other people.
You cannot leave us hanging. What was the tattoo?
I think apologizing is a wonderful gesture. Maybe invite her out for tea or coffee and do it in person.
Oh hell no. Tell her to keep away unless she gets her BPD under control. This is just gonna get MESSY.
Congrats on ruining your marriage
Do you have a friend that you could apartment swap with? Also the police and domestic violence center and talk with doctor.
I think you should go for it. If this breaks the relationship, then maybe good riddance? I think true friends can move past this if he truly isn’t interested.
My thought process on this was that if OP tells her this, she’d cancel her plans to maintain the relationship.
If not, he can let her go and live the best life that he can. He would deserve better than this.
You are the best example of a trash mom. Your first thought is not the safety of your baby instead you defended a coke head who assaulted somebody else. That’s your future.
Actually you don’t have a future.
A coke head who’s priority is his supply with drugs and not the needs of your baby.
What do you think he is doing if he has the choice to buy weed/coke/meth or diapers?
Right? You know it.
Run.
I had invited him in terms of “hey, if you aren't working when I arrange it then I'd love you to tag along”. It's not abnormal at all in my circle to invite your partner, even to events mostly attended by work friends. They all get on so well with him and he wouldn't be out of place. Now he's saying he's going to try to get the day off work. I just feel even more anxious about that now, and I can't figure out why. I DO want him there. I just want it to feel like a choice rather than an expectation, you know?
I don't get why it really matters? If she's uncomfortable, why try and force her? You guys still have sex, so it's not like her not letting you see her is hindering that. I can't see what else this would really effect.
You definitely should've comforted her, at the very least, instead of doubling down.
he was accusing you of violence intentionally, probably to exert power in some strange way, knowing it would make you feel shit. however he did not think you would have such self respect as to walk out: this took him by surprise and took away his power. therefore, to regain that power he not only manipulated you by crying to try to make you feel guilty, also claiming ignorance, but he also PHYSICALLY RESTRAINED YOU. let that sink in please.
this man is abusive and it’s already showing. please leave him!
They will all live with her and fly together. Money is not an issue for us. And I said that I felt like I was forced to choose. My kids don’t feel like I am choosing anything as they are too young to grasp the situation.
Tell her, if she doesn't want to be with you, you xan divorce. However if you want to stay together, she needs to show you theur convos. Explain, that uf your marriage us wirth less fir her than his privacy, then it is better to end it.
Explain to her that if she deletes their messages you will never fully trust her, and don't know if you can stay with her.
She has already told you how she doesn't feel that strongly about you. Tell me, would you stay with her, if she cheated on you?
If not, than honestly, unless she decides to show you their undeleted cinvos it mighr better to divorce.